Over protective why?

my mom is VERY over protective of me. Im 12 going on 13 and i asked her if i could have space just a little and shes like "NO! until your in college then u can have "space". One day i flipped out so bad, the only place i could have private time to myself is in the bathroom, i broke down crying saying "im not joking i will do suicidal attempt to myself" im scared of using a razor to cut myself, so all i did was itch my skin until it bleed. these are the things she over protective:





1. on the phone, she has to liten to my conversation


2. NEVER EVER EVER! going out


3. whenever she learns to drive, shes ALWAYS has to pick me up from school and dropp me off


4. going into my business like on the internet taling to my friends


5. NEVER EVER EVER trusting me with AANYTHING


6. ALWAYS studying, and always comparing me to other people that are beter than me





%26amp; many more. Im sick and tired of this shitt she playing with my life. school is the only place i can have my time to myself. home is prison

Over protective why?
She loves you, but is over reacting .... She fears you may make her a Grandma before her time ..... She worries that peer pressure and a few poor choices could ruin your life ...... Talk to her ... reassure her of your feelings, plans ... try to include her ... you only have a few more years ... show her you can make good decisions, and pick good friends ....








If that fails try the school counsler for some assistance in recomending a good impartial person to speek with ... perhaps Mom will listen then .......





It may be hard but stick with it ..... She cares and is scared for you !





Good Luck.
Reply:Your mom loves you and wants to care for you. If you want to be trusted start talking with your mom, and start showing her you make good decisions. If I was your parent and I heard you talk about suicide, I would be very afraid and would want to help you as much as I could. Please don't confuse this protection with wanting you not to be happy, because they want to see you happy, they just don't want anything bad to happen to you.
Reply:She loves you, but she is going over the top. Can you tell your father or grandmother or any part of the family about this ? This is really bad for your health. I wouldn't normally recommended this but I suggest that you break her rules slightly, just to show that you are fine. Ask your friends to also pitch in and their parents to help, get any help you can and good luck !