Do u think there will be trouble down the road for a white women who dates a black man ?

Let's start off saying I'm not racist. I have met one of the best guys I have ever met in my life. He is the one that makes my heart pound by just walking in the room or hearing his voice on the phone. Some day maybe I would like us to go further in our relationship. He has a daughter to. She is great. But I wonder will it be hard for us later down the road ? Will it be hard for his daughter ? Will people judge us so much that it makes our life horrible ? I think I could handle it. But will his daughter be able to. And I don't want is mother to drive us apart. She is racist against white women. He likes us looking different from each other . He likes my white skin, freckles and red hair and green eyes. And I like his dark skin, and yes even his bubble butt:) I think i have answered my own question. But input would great. So answer if you can or want to . thanks!

Do u think there will be trouble down the road for a white women who dates a black man ?
There may be some people down the road or even now that don't like what your doing. That being said you have to do what you feel is right. If you love this man then who cares what color he is or what color you are? People might look at you different when you are shopping at Kroger but who cares? They are probably close minded and ignorant. You have to do what you think is right and I think it's a beautiful thing you have ...true love.. that's all you need.
Reply:i don't think so
Reply:NO WHY WOULD THERE BE TROUBLE. IF U LOVE EACH OTHER DON'T WORRY ABOUT WHAT IGNORANT PEOPLE SAY
Reply:no not if u 2 love eachother.
Reply:Trouble, this isnt 1955, lol,
Reply:It's ok my boyfriend and i are 17 years apart, i'm 18 and he's 35 years old. I found love in lousiana and i'm very happy. Plus he's half black and i am a white girl. There is nothing wrong with black and white. People love each other and their will not be nothing wrong with it unless you are in a city or state, which people dont like black and white mixed together. But i wish you very well. (Amber 18 misssouri)
Reply:i am in the same situation as u, im totally in love with my guy whos jamaican and im greek! my family say they will disown me but at the end of the day, ur feelings r urs not ur familiy's or his. once his mother sees how happy her son is, she will forget your colour. if he loves u and u love him, then whats stopping u? u go girl!!!
Reply:do whatever u think its' best. moms can be overly protective of who their sons marry and i guess sometimes i can understand. but dont let anyone get in the way of ur future. hold ur head up high and walk right up!
Reply:Unfortunately there will probably be some problems but I hope that doesn't stop you from being with someone you truly love. There will always be idiots in this world that can't accept that skin color is meaningless.
Reply:Its doesnt matter because God made everybody equal if you love this guy and if he love you thats what really matters what everybody else may say dont let it stop you from being with the man that you love if his daughter likes you that is good and her mother is jealous because he have move on and she just might want him back and there will not be any trouble with you having a relationship with this guy just keep your head up and just know that he loves you.
Reply:look let me tell you i am from D.C and i know how grils are and they would look at you like you kown you **** up big time by comeing down here with a black dude and you white but you got to see as if the came up from where you from and they had a whit boyfriend but i can say it okey if you go down the road with mr black because they will get over it and nothing will happen to you .and to let you know i am black too.so if you love him you will. but just don't act like you got it like that or something will happen to you and that all i can say........
Reply:People will stare at you and like you say you can handle it. That's fine but together with your boyfrien you should talk to his daughter when/if she is old enought to understand. that racism will alway be there especially here in America and that it is better not to pay people any mind. I have a white boyfriend too and sometimes I get the stare. But I am not doing anything to please anyone else but myself and my child. So talking heart to heart always helps and make sure you and your boyfriend are on the same level. When you care about or love someone you should always try to work things out and not try to blame any body for anything. the closer you guys get you should show his daughter unconditional love the rest will follow. And for his mother she'll get over it.





Never ever tell his daughter her grandmother hates you!!!!


GOOD LUCK
Reply:Tough one! Actually it all depends on both of you...can you handle it? Do you think your love is strong enough it handle the fire when it comes because it will come. There are so many bigotted, small-minded and hateful people in the world but if we give in to their wishes, the world will never ever change so you have to do what you know in your heart is right. God created us beautiful and different. If anyone has a problem with that,then thats their problem not yours. But you have to ask yourself if what u feel for your man is real love and not physical attraction or sexual curiousity. As for his daughter, hopefully the world will be a better place when she is older. Just show her love. You cant go wrong with that. I wish you the best in whatever decision you choose to take.
Reply:others probably wont except it because where I'm from well its really raciest and their aren't many blacks but this one white girl dated the black boy and everyone thought she was a tramp after they broke up no one would date her! plus the kids get called names like Oreo and stuff like that
Reply:Why should u give a crap about what people think...You love him...Thats what matters..
Reply:Yes, there might be trouble, it is almost inevitable. But, you can get through it if you two are really in love. Nothing can come between two people in love. There will be a lot of people that will hate on your relationship, including black women, whom will feel like another white women is stealing another one of our scarce, but good black men. Racism seems like it is getting better and I know a lot of interracial couples and they don't seem like they are having problems. As for his mother, there is nothing you can do about it. Just show her that you really love her son. He needs to tell her to back off and accept his decision. Good luck! ~coming from a black women.
Reply:Anything is possible.





Keys to this working when his mother has racial differences. You will need to move far away from her, so she can't intrude in the relationship if you happen to get married.





This is even true in any relationship, where a mother in law is a strain on the sceen. (Distance) makes things work.





If it were just the three of you and no one else in the world it would be perfect. (You,Him,daughter.)