I really like this guy I met online. We met for 1st time last week and seemed not to get enough of each other.

We also talk on the phone evday and I feel like I can fall deeply in love with him. The thing that bothers me is I'm still insecure of myself and image. Like I don't have the prettiest skin because I'm a light-skinned black woman and have dark acne blemishes on my face that are going away so slowly. When we met we hugged and kissed most of the time but it was dark outside also. I'm so afraid for him to see me in the daytime but he did see me when we were outside by the street lights. He told me that I was pretty but I think its because he didn't see me during the day. I like this man so much and have already told him so and he told me too. I want so bad not to let my insecurities get in the way and tell him to stop calling me but I'm also afraid to tell him about my insecurities because it might push him away. I have been alone for a long time and for the first time in my life I feel so appreciated and special to him. I just don't know what to do. And I want to be with him so bad

I really like this guy I met online. We met for 1st time last week and seemed not to get enough of each other.
Dont worry if he doesnt like you for looks then hes not right for you anyway
Reply:I didn't choose a best answer because I felt all of you had the best answer. Btw we're still dating and my feelings get stronger for him each day. I appreciate all of your comments, thanks people Report It

Reply:dang every one is meetin online just stay with him
Reply:Leave him try me :P
Reply:Get some self confidence:)


He LIKES you!!
Reply:enjoy the experience
Reply:well call him up and ask him out to a movie or go to the mall or go out to eat and or hang out.
Reply:he's a pedophile. you're too young. go to the clubs like a good little girl
Reply:Well, think about it: Eventually you two are going to see each


other in all of your unhidden glory.





Do you really think he hasn't seen enough of you to have


made up his mind whether or not he could be attracted to you?





One more pimple isn't going to send him away, I promise.
Reply:Go for it. Stop letting your insecurities get in the way of your life. If you met on line, then he already has a good idea of the inside you, not just your pretty face. Sounds like a prince, don't let him get away. Good luck.
Reply:Work on your insecurity issues and things should fall into place. If he loves you, he won't care.
Reply:blemishes? what blemished? he did not see them he looked deeper and saw you. try to look at yourself through his eyes
Reply:tell him how u feel, wats the worst tht could happen. its not like u will die, and if he doesnt like the way u look or act, its better u find out now than when u like him even more
Reply:Let him see you during the day. If he thinks your not pretty then he is not worth it.
Reply:Just go with it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Do not let something like this get in the way of having fun!!!
Reply:dont take a chance he gud b old n wrikly for all u no
Reply:pity... do you watch shrek the movie?...
Reply:all i can say hun is "CONGRATS!" stop worring about your looks, ur personality is what he met online and he knows u for who u r and reality; looks only go so far......i think this is brilliant and i wish u both the best!
Reply:apparently he really likes you too no matter what... the thing is you need not to worry so much about appearances.. you really dont need a man who will not treat you right because of something so silly... men like women who have high self esteem remember that and take that to heart :)
Reply:if he doesent like you for you and what yur are on the inside and "out" then..well its yur decision after that
Reply:its not about what is on the outside it is about what is on the inside!, and if he cant deal with that he needs to hit the road sister!
Reply:Well you should be very happy that you fond someone that makes you feel that way and you should be confidant he has told you he likes you and I'm sure you are very pretty and he probably thinks so too. Don't worry enjoy the time you have together. =)
Reply:Just go with the flow. If you let your insecurities get in the way, then it will cause even more problems. He likes you for you, remember that. Don't stress, have fun. Good luck with your new relationship.
Reply:if he likes you he likes you for you not ur looks ;)
Reply:I had a good friend that fell in love with someone on line. Ended up marrying him a short while later and now they have babies. She is a good sized girl but cute as all get out . She has a great personality and almost too much confidence and that drove him wild!
Reply:For your own sanity alone. Does he know what you look like?
Reply:The bottom line is... if his love is true, then he will love you no matter what. If not, then you can have closure and know for certain that you don't need to spend any more emotional energy and time on this man. His 'not accepting' you has nothing to do with your loveability or your value/worth as a person. It only reveals his superficiality. But his 'accepting' you would show the measure of how deep his love is... that it is indeed for who you are that he loves. Keep things in perspective -- true love will overcome all insecurity. After all, isn't that what you really want? True love? Without pretenses? God bless...
Reply:you should tell him how you fill about him....if you really like him
Reply:see if the two of you can work it out and if not stay friends
Reply:I am concerned because, children use yahoo and they are gullable. You are telling a story about meeting someone off the internet and if children are here, they might think it is ok. I am sorry for the brief lecture but, I worry about children. Girl if the guy says you are pretty then you are. Put your insecurities away and don't share them with him. You are probly just unsure of yourself. Try some Proactive, it might help your complexion.
Reply:Don't be afraid to tell him about you face. Tell him on the phone...If it is going to be a problem for him than he is not the one for you... Please be honest both of you. talk to him about it. OK! People can be beautiful from the inside...not just the outside Just a not here: Can't you wear a make-up to make yourself feel better when you are out in the light if it bothers you that much...It would worth it to spend the money for a good foundation with a powder dusted over your make-up...I like wearing make-up.
Reply:Just be careful with online guys. I also met and thought I was in love with someone off the net. I ended a 8 year relationship to find that the grass was not greener on the other side. Its hard because you only see him for a limited time so you never get over the honeymoon phase...till its too late. I am sure that if the man told you he thought you were pretty , and you have talked to him since that you have nothing to worry about in that area. Be proud of your skin and heritage!