Monday, August 23, 2010

My brother just punched me for a really stupid reason and my mom isnt doing anything, HELP! what do i do?

The phone was ringing and he told my friend i wasnt home and i was all like: "dont hang up im home!!" and he was all like 'f you' and then he punched my face (i have really sensitive skin and it will bruise)and my mom was standing right there in the middle of it and didnt do anything.





SHE NEVER DOES ANYTHING WHEN HE PHYSICALLY HURTS ME!! I dont want to call the police because i have enough to do with them with custody issues but i think he needs anger management?





he always beats on me when his life is going wrong which it always is, and he is way the hell bigger than me and older by only one year. What can i do about this? I'm serious about this, i feel like my life is in danger and there is no one out there to help me. My mom just shrugged it off, thats it and my face is frikkin stinging!!





WHAT CAN I DO? WHO can i get to come see him, im serious he has problems and i dont know why he takes his problems out on me but its horrible its like living in an abusive, negative hell

My brother just punched me for a really stupid reason and my mom isnt doing anything, HELP! what do i do?
take a crap in his pillowcase.





your mum needs a smack in the head, people like that shouldn't have kids.





also you should practise martial arts, after about 2 yrs your brother will be no longer a problem you'll own him.





in the mean time you need to think smart. Find something that you can have over him even if you need to create the situation yourself. then use that as blackmail to prevent him doing anything to you. don't feel bad about this as it is a nessacary defence an is no where as bad as what he does. Think along the lines ofsomething that'll really stuff him up if it got out like, he cheated on his girlfriend or something to do with his job (just rough ideas).





oh and don't forget your mum, she needs to be punnished as well, but focus on the task at hand first.





good luck mate.
Reply:A swift kick to the nads should do it.
Reply:punch him back...that will fix him..im sure of it
Reply:she abts u to fight back
Reply:Talk to your school's office about this and they will be able to find your brother some help. They usually try to help you before taking desperate measures that could get your mom or brother in very bad trouble.
Reply:call the police or punch him back or grab ahold of his balls and pull them he will b on the floor cryin , or run to a neighbors house, then u should all go to family therapy
Reply:dam!


dat mus suck


idk ummmm hit him back?
Reply:If your mom didn't care when he did it to you why not do it back, just as long as don't think he will do it even worse after that.
Reply:call child services or the police! immediately!!! or the youth help line.
Reply:Um, well first punch him back! Then tell you'r mom how you feel and to start being a parent and step in.
Reply:fart on his pillow he might get pinkeye
Reply:omg, hes ur brother, get over it, all siblings physically abuse eachother, parents dont care unless ur little, so just punch him back!
Reply:Take her aside and talk to her about how it wasn't fair to not do anything. My brother does the same thing.
Reply:Call child help or tell your mom.
Reply:He probably punched you because of all the DRAMA.
Reply:HIT HIM BACK!! or kick him...
Reply:theres a thing called punch him back..it doesnt matter how big he is...





and you should talk to your mother about this..if she doesnt do anything about what is she really good for and why would she let somebody hurt you like this.
Reply:wow ask your dad
Reply:Cut his hair while he is sleeping!!!!!! That's what i'd do.
Reply:pull a knife on him. do something to get back at him
Reply:You need to press charges on his ***. Your Mom needs to pull her head out of the sand and put a stop to that crap. It is not cute or child's play when he is doing it to hurt you. You tell your Mom to put a stop to it or else you will have no choice to go to the authorities. Take it seriously or she won't. And yes, she needs to be the one to put a stop to it, because it is her house.
Reply:pop his freaking balls :) i did it to my bro
Reply:Hire a bodyguard. Or at least someone to rough him up a little. Or, fight with a weapon. If he wanted fair he'd find someone his own size.
Reply:You need to call the police. If you have coustdy problem with coustdy issues will only get worse if anyone finds out you live with an abusive person and don't do anything about it. Press charges, let him know it isn't ok.
Reply:You can file charges against him and your mom and go live with another relative. Maybe that will straighten both of them out. Good Luck. Call 911
Reply:I feel sorry for you. Do you have any good cousin or friend you could go live with? My sister, when she was a teen, took one of her friends into our house when things were not going well for her at home. My parents were cool with it, and for me it was like having another sister.
Reply:Sit down and talk. You need to tell your mom how you feel. If she doesn't do anything, talk to an adult you trust like a guidance teacher. However, keep the fact that it's normal for brothers and sister to fight in mind. Also, you should talk to your brother. DONT hit him back! That can only make problems worse.
Reply:well first off u cant do much about ur brother





but there's definately something wrong with ur mom





ur brother's acting like this because he knows ur mom wont do anything about it and is use to the idea that he can physically abuse u





if ur mom did something about it in the first place, like most parents would do the first time ur brother hit u would've been his last





u definately need to tell an adult....either someone else like ur dad, uncle, aunt, grand parents





if not, then ur teachers
Reply:There is no way to solve this without getting the authorities involved if you're under 18 Honey. I suggest you seek the help of a school counselor and/or neutral family member. That house is dangerous and both your brother and mother are committing criminal offenses. I know that's hard to hear, but your mother's job is to protect you, and she's not doing that. Please seek help now. If you're both living in that house, a restraining order won't do anything, and you can't get one without involving the courts. Do it before you end up in the hospital. It will also force your brother to get some help.
Reply:find him a girlfriend,that way he will be too busy to worry about hitting you.
Reply:Find an older and larger friend who will take your brother and impress on him that if you get hit, he (your brother) will get hit twice. 2 for one. The next time it will be three for one. And so on.





If you can't beat them, find someone who can. Forget schools and counselors and lawyers - speak a language your brother can understand. A fist.


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