I want to hear other people views on this thing...thanks!!?

do you think me and my ex would ever be 2gether?


me and him was 2gether for 3.5 years and it was ok not perfect and not bad. i know he loves me and i love him 4 sure.


and about a month ago he said that he dont want to be 2gether cuz he tired of things that i do liek nag him all the time and ***** about things.





he still talks to me ont he phone and i've seen him 2 days ago and when we was walking my shirt was up a lil and my skin was shown and he said pull down your shirt. when i look at him i can see in his eyes that he miss me and loves me, but y didnt he just say that he wants to seperate for a while.





and he told me that he has another gurl and i ask so much about her that he start to tell me dont worry about it why does it matta and its not important.





people i know and my friends tell me that he lies to you so you can leave him alone and not bother him.





i want to do that but i wish i knew if he will coem back. i know he loves me and cares he even told me that. after a break up.


i told him that i understand that i was wrong and that i will try my best not to nag and ***** and he said ok and i said i just want to be ur friend now.


then when i seen him i started to ask about his new gf and nag him i asked him to show my his gf. pic in his phone he said he will and now he says no he wont cuz he dont want me to be mad and nag about her. i don t really believe that he has another gf. and he said that i say 1 thing and do the other so what i say aboutme change is bull.


so it tells me that he want me to change and then we can be 2gether? what you guys think.





i will do that i will change to be with him, cuz i know we love each other and we will be happy 2gether.

I want to hear other people views on this thing...thanks!!?
I think if he says he has a girlfriend (whether it's true or not) you, as a friend, should respect that. Don't try and pressure him into telling you about her, etc. If you love him, show it by being a supportive friend. If he wants to try with you again, I feel it's up to him to be honest with his current girlfriend and you about it. Just do you part and continue to be a good friend. If his feelings are still there for you and he's willing to try again, I believe he would let you know b/c he obviously already knows you still want to be with him. Leave the ball in his court. As far as you changing to be with him, I don't think that's the answer. You shouldn't have to change who you are to make a relationship work. The person should be attracted to who you are as a person, not who they want you to be. If he won't accept you for who you are then you may need to think about moving on. I'm sure there's someone out there who is willing to take you as you are and work together with you to grow and change. Do you think that person could be your ex?