Monday, November 21, 2011

To dye, or not to dye :D?

so over the holidays, im gonna get this hair:


http://i170.photobucket.com/albums/u248/...


and i was wondering, whether i should dye it platinum like in the pic, or just get the cut?


this is me:


http://img232.imageshack.us/img232/8155/...


:/ its a really bad pic taken with a cell phone, and plus my hair usually isnt wavy at the front. i just kinda hadnt brushed it in a while xD im getting a straightener for christmass soo.


was wondering about skin tone, ect. blabla.


oh and, do yew think it would suit me? the style, i mean :D would have to get extensions and stuff, just wondering if it is worth it and it would look good [:





plus my hair is so boring right now O.o doesnt suit me, imo.

To dye, or not to dye :D?
You're hair is already blonde.


Just get the cut.





I know what your saying, but why damage your hair dying it, when your color is already similar?
Reply:Yeah you have the same skin tone as that girl and it'll look nice go for it! (dye and all)
Reply:I'd hafta see another picture, 'cos the picture is tinted pink/red, but your skin tone might be too warm to go that cold (plat blonde) your hair is a very pretty color right now, but if you did want to go lighter, it's still possible - look for a lighter shade that has "warm" or "gold" in the name, or the box says it's a warm color. BUT I MIGHT BE WAY OFF 'cos i am not sure of the actual colors since the pic is off-color-





if your skin has pink tones in it, go warm. if it is cooler, go cooler. Cool shades will be marked as "ash" on the box.





Good luck, you have pretty hair. :)

shell flower

Don't know what to do.?

I don't know what to do anymore.


My younger brother is the devil on earth.


He's 13 and screams and shouts.


He tried to drown me once.


He makes my parents cranky.


It seems like they take it out on me.


I was screamed at for answering the phone wrong.


I'm not good looking.


I have 3 friends.


I talk to my friends about this all.


It helps, until they have to stop talking.


I feel like I'm in a hole that I can't get out of.


A few days ago I dug my fingernails in my skin


until they bled.


I need a healthy alternative to this.


Anything to help with the constant


emotional pain I'm in.

Don't know what to do.?
Long live Advil.





You don't seem to be where you want to be.


But concerning your brother, ( who'd I'd trade for a dog if I were you) you shouldn't be the one to be blamed for. Your parents are suffering just as much as you are, and probably even more, that they have jobs-- so as much as it hurts, try to ignore when they blame you. Besides, your brother reached the puberty age so, it happens.





I bet that you're pretty good looking... considering that your not an abominable snowman, but not marylin monoroe either. You're not the only one... and even if you aren't the way you want to be, be happy that you're not fully grown yet.





Your friends aren't good listeners, either. You've got your life in the mud, but surely that is not your destiny. You've got a whole life ahead of you. At least you have 3 friends... there are people that are complete outsiders. I suggest you focus on your school... some way or another, by avoiding evil teachers and stupid bullies, I used to find education a "safe haven" where I could escape my troubles for a while. I am sorry, Im no help, but you'll have to find a way on your own.
Reply:In a few years you will be too busy balancing your checkbook and paying the lease on your car that you won't have time or energy to bitc_ about your high school melodramatic issues. (continued) Report It

Reply:Now if you were better looking you would probably be more popular in school and on the cheerleading squad, and your question wouldn't exist in the first place, but hey, life's not fair so start playing chess and get over your obsolete checkers. Report It

Reply:therapy. you prob don't want to hear that lol but it helped me. it's just good to have soembody else to talk to about suff. another opion.
Reply:Sorry you are goingt through this. Talk to a teacher you like and trust, or even a counselor. Keep talking with your friends, this outlet is helping you more than you know.


Do get some help with this.


Interpreting dreams?

Scary dream....a 10ft alligator was chasing me then decided to shed its skin! (I watched this from afar) Once he was done, he then resumed chasing me (based on my scent), but could not find me cause I hid. And to top it off, I was on the cell phone the entire time!





What does this mean?

Interpreting dreams?
The alligator represents the old you, or things you used to do that you now regret doing, and that you don't see as being who you are now. You are going through changes in your life, and your mind is using the alligator to represent the old you, and those changes.





The cell phone has nothing to do with it, it is just because you use a cell phone a lot and that is how your mind views you now, as a modern, independent woman.
Reply:You have a stalker and your cell phone bill is way too high.
Reply:sounds freudian (seriously). any sexual anxieties in your life?
Reply:May be you went to a pet shop within last few days.
Reply:Wow..interesting dream. Try to remember how you felt during and after the dream. Then corralate that with what is currently going on in your life. The alligator symbolized something in your life. The cell phone may symbolized that you are trying to talking to someone in your life, but are not able to. Good luck!
Reply:I don't know exactly but don't have sex without protection
Reply:Though I'm not sure..I do know that being chased in a dream means fear of not living up to expectations, fear of losing or lacking success.


While crocodiles mean unexpected danger and/or sadness.


And a mobile phone can suggest that you desire answers from others.


So to sum it up you could be afraid of not living up to expectations since some new threat occurred in your life and you are waiting for help from others instead of dealing with it you self.
Reply:This means that you're low on sleep.
Reply:It means run for your life.
Reply:the 10 ft alligator means that size matters
Reply:Wow, I was going to put alot of thought into this one until I read Dan's answer. My answer would be pale and unworthy after his. Give those 10 points to Dan!
Reply:fear of the devil [crocodile] -- subconscious guilt; conscious but repressed fear of future -- crying out for help [cell phone] inside
Reply:IT MEANS THAT YOU HAVE SOME THINGS THAT YOU HIDE FROM THE PEOPLE THAT YOU MOST CARE ABOUT. YOU ARE AFRAID THEY MIGHT NOT LIKE YOU IF YOU DO. IT ALSO MEAN THAT YOU ARE HESITATING WHETHER TO SHARE THOSE THINGS WITH SOMEONE OR NOT. YOU ARE TRYING TO HIDE FROM YOUR OWN SELF, FROM THE THINGS THAT YOU DON'T LIKE ABOUT YOURSELF. THAT'S WHAT THE ENTIRE CHASE, THE ALLIGATOR SHEDDING HIS SKIN AND THE HIDING REPRESENTS.


THE CELL PHONE IS YOUR CONSTANT NEED TO BE IN TOUCH WITH SOMEONE IMPORTANT FOR YOU, BUT YOU ARE NOT A 100% SINCERE WITH HIM/HER. ALSO THAT YOU ARE AFRAID TO BE ALONE, AFRAID THAT THAT SOMEONE MIGHT NOT LIKE YOU FOR WHO YOU REALLY ARE.
Reply:Feelings or fears of being attacked or overwhelmed, possibly from within oneself, or by a powerful mother - i.e. ones internal dependence upon mother.
Reply:To see an alligator in your dream, signifies treachery, deceit, and hidden instincts. It may be a signal for you to take a new perspective on a situation. Alternatively, the alligator represents healing powers and qualities. According to biblical interpretations, an alligator suggests that leviathan is king over the children of pride. (Spa 74:14, Job 41:1,Isa 27:1)


To dream that you are being chased, signifies that you are avoiding a situation that you do not think is conquerable. It is often a metaphor for some form of insecurity. In particular, to dream that you are chased by an animal, represents your own unexpressed and unacknowledged anger which is being projected onto that animal. Alternatively, you may be running away from a primal urge or fear. To dream that you are chasing someone, signifies that you are attempting to overcome a difficult goal or task. You may also be expressing some aggressive feelings toward others.


To see a metamorphosis take place in your dream, denotes sudden and rapid changes in your personal life. If the metamorphosis is a smooth one, then it indicates necessary changes for you to adapt to a new situation. However, if the metamorphosis is a complicated and unpleasant one, then it suggests that you are ill prepared for the changes in your life.


To dream that you are hiding, suggests that you are keeping some secret or withholding some information. You may not be facing up to a situation or not want to deal with an issue. However, you may be getting ready to reveal and confess before somebody finds out. To dream that you are somebody else is hiding, indicates a need for security and protection. In particular, to dream that you are hiding from some authority figure (police, parents, teacher...), implies feelings of guilt.


To see or hear a telephone in your dream, signifies a message from your unconscious or some sort of telepathic communication. You may be forced to confront issues which you have tried to avoid. To dream that you do not want to answer the ringing telephone, indicates lack of communication. There is a situation or relationship that you are tying to keep at a distance. To dream that you have trouble hearing over the telephone, signifies that you are the centre of some malicious gossip.


Please help me feel better from a staph infection! I don't seem to be getting better.?

I am feeling so ill that I feel sad and possibly depressed. I really want to find something to help me feel better. I was diagnosed with a staph infection and given a week's worth of antibiotics. I am on Imuran from a kidney transplant 3 years ago. I had swollen lymph nodes all over, a blinding headache, and a stiff neck. I went to the doctor, and he said that, plus boils (I just though I was having an acne breakout) was staph from being on Imuran. Since then, I have been having unbearable symptoms. I don't feel rested after sleeping or napping, skin is peeling and feels sunbruned near some of the pimpes I drained, nausea that makes me carry a bucket, headache, itching red rash in several places, etc. Now my whole back is stiff. The worst part is that I feel like I am freezing and do not have a fever and have an insatiable craving for powdered donuts. I don't know if my thermometer is broken, but it showed between 97.1 and 97.6 all day today. My doctor isn't returning my phone calls :^

Please help me feel better from a staph infection! I don't seem to be getting better.?
what a bad day...


better moments on the way...
Reply:Your doctor isn't returning phone calls? Wow, that is really bad news, time to find another doctor fast. This sounds pretty serious, call the hospital and ask if there is someone they can recommend that specializes in staph.





Take care, I am sorry, I haven't a clue what to tell you. I will pray for you.
Reply:Try colloidal silver. You should be able to get it at a healthfood store or a homeopathic drug store. You may have antibiotic resistant (MRSA) staph, and colloidal silver is better than most antibiotics.
Reply:OH my GoD!!!





Im soooo deeply soorry that you have to put up with this!!


I really do hope for the best in your recovery! although these words give no cure...I truly mean them!





plz tell your body to get better jeje


leave tons of voicemails for your doctor...jeje!





Again, plz get better!!!!
Reply:Watching funny videos on the internet and reading some good old jokes and riddles helps me feel better when I'm sick but I've never been as sick as you but maybe a good distraction like reading a book can take your mind off of things! It might be hard to concentrate but it will still be better than just sitting or sleeping all day trying to wait it out! Another possibility is to watch a good movie or something you like! Maybe call a friend! Try to get active "not like sports and stuff but like walk around a bit". Try to stretch your legs and stuff. I know it stinks having staph and I hope you feel better but the best thing to do in order to get over the symptoms that effect your mind is to just get a good distraction and stick to it! A fun thing I always find is playing chess or checkers against the computer! I hope you feel better!
Reply:If your doctor is not returning your calls, you should find another who will listen to your list of complaints. I know that transplant patients have to take anti rejection drugs for the rest of their lives so perhaps the Imuran isn't the best one for you and others are available that will give you some relief. The symptoms you describe sound like an immune deficiency to me but, I'm not a doctor. I do know that eating fruits and vegetables that are grown near where a person lives, gives them a greater immunity to irritants but this may be lame when a kidney transplant is involved. Animal products, as far as I'm concerned, will only add to your problems because of the additives they contain. Personally, I've been a vegetarian for over 25 years and I can't remember the last time I had even so much as a cold. Again, find a doctor who is more sympathetic than the one you wrote about. I hope you get better soon. I'd hug you if I could.
Reply:First of all. As a normal joe, I hope and pray for your recovery. Do what makes you happy. Humor is a great idea.





Second of all, as a Nurse, the treatment you have received sounds piss poor.





Have you definitely been diagnosed with staph?





Have you been diagnosed with MRSA


Has blood work been done?


What Meds have been prescribed.





The Imuran was most likely the contributing factor to the Staph (if indeed you have it). How long have you been taking it and have you ever had adverse reactions to it.





You mentioned something about what you thought were pimples, have they been drained, and are they what lead your doctor to the diagnosis?





Answer those questions above and I will edit this post.





Hang in there!
Reply:if u spike up a fever real quick go to the hospital


U may be starting MRSA like the other person said so go to the doctors office


Why are older sisters usually mean to their younger sisters?

My name is Bria and i'm 12 years old. I have a older sister her name is Vanessa she's 15 years old. We are always arguing. We get along sometimes. And she is always on the phone and my friends call and she tell them i will call them back and she never tells me that any of my friends call thats what i hate. Sometimes i hit her and she hit me back. I let my nails grow so that when she scratch me with her nails i can scratch her back. Like one time i scratched her first on purpose and it turn red, but i was scared LOL cuz her nails are longer then mine and i was scared she was going to scratch me back, and she did she scratched me hard because her nails kind of dug into my skin and i had big scratch marks on my arm and some of the scratches were bleeding. Hey but i learned my lesson not to scratch her cuz she will scratch the **** out of me. LOL but sometime shes nice but most of the time shes mean.

Why are older sisters usually mean to their younger sisters?
I AM OLDER THAN MY SISTER AND I WAS NEVER MEAN TO HER INSTEAD I WAS PROTECTIVE.





SOME TIMES IT HAPPENDS BETWEEN A BOY AND A GIRL THAT ARE RELATED.





TODAY I HAVE A SON AND A DAUGHTER AND THEY FAUGHT A LOT AND THEY ALSO GOT A LONG A LOT.





THEY ARE GOOD KIDS AND I LOVE THEM. ALSO HAVE TEACH THEM TO RESPECT EACH OTHER AND BE THERE FOR ONE ANOTHER.
Reply:Because we're teaching them that the real world is full of mean people - we're teaching them to be strong...
Reply:Yea, I have the same problem but my sister does not scratch me that my scratches bleed cuz that would be alittle harsh like she does to u!
Reply:lol Tom %26amp; Jerry


hey what's up with u and ur sister i think u should talk to ur father about that


i think ur sister feel jealous from u because u r more beautiful than her or ur parents give u more attention than her


so try to avoide her and dont make any fight with her


about ur friends u can talk to them at any place and dont make fight with ur sister about the pohne


or talk to ur father about that


about the big nails she has , u should stop fight with her in that kind because she will win all the time hehehehe


so just try to avoide her or be close more to her and love each other
Reply:well older sisters like to feel the power and i am a younger sister (12) and my sister fought alot to but she got more mature and she didnt really care and know she kinda looks up to me LOL but dont let her know she hurts you

alstroemeria

I'm pretty cute, but i need help?

ok, so i have rich wavy hair, beautiful skin, big brown eyes, and as in big, i mean damn hot. i am new there in our school and everybody keeps making fun of me. my grades have droped beacause of that. also everyone in our school, thanx to my action and our principle's daughter big mouth, knows who i have a crush on. now all i do is hide in the library and pretend i dont exist. this is horibble. someone give me some good advice please. i love him, we have the exact same taste in evrything. i have the cell phone that he has, the same color, i have the same elective that he has. we are both straight A students, and we have been eccepted to the same high schools. we are in the same row of lockers, we are always wearing the same color of shirt, we both have the same birthday, we are both in one street. and there is also alot of other small things that we have in common. how much more time does he need to see them all? and they are not accidents. so someone please help me! hot girls needhelp

I'm pretty cute, but i need help?
you need to realize beauty comes from within if you dont have confidence or if you dont humble yourself it will show and try to keep up your grades good looks dont get you very far in life b/c they only last so long
Reply:Since when do you have to be "accepted" to a high school?
Reply:Maybe you're not as "hot" as you think..an ugly attitude makes an ugly person.
Reply:... If YOU think yer so darn cute.... %26amp; obviously you do... you need mental help,
Reply:osirisnoria@hotmail.com
Reply:Ummm, talk to him and tell him how you feel, its not always the guys that have to make the first move
Reply:you think very highly of your self dont you,
Reply:just take a deep breath and ask him out
Reply:talk to him!!


and so what if everyone knows??





if you really are cute, then he could like you back,


if not, oh well, theres a lot of guys out there.
Reply:maybe hell never realize, it so u have to tell him and make a stand. DO SOMETHING, i fu like him... make out or something!
Reply:Ask him out!
Reply:Ummm, you sound kinda stalkerish and obsessive.


Chill out a little and maybe he'll notice you.
Reply:Get over thinking your hot and get real! Then, slowly but surely, reality, whatever it is to be, will set in.
Reply:relax, back off, you will scare him away if you keep on like this.


You need to calm down and realize maybe opposites attract.


Maybe he is too shy to talk to you.


Or maybe he doesn't want the drama of talking to you with all this stuff.


Crushes are emotional and volatile, and change so often. Perhaps you will stop liking him and he will like you.
Reply:Be honest and open with him. TAKE A RISK! talk to him. Knowing if there is any chemistry is better than suffering alone in the library hiding. Go now, give it a try... this is life. Good luck, I'm sure he's sitting there scared, feeling the same things. Go get him.
Reply:Are you for real? That's a huge load of coincidences if that is true...almost too real. That's just a wee bit creepy that you already know all of that, you're obsessed with him. Just relax and be nice. Talk to him, get to know more about him other than what you have that he has. That's just material things and I'm sure you guys could get along well, but you might just scare him away if you get too obsessed.
Reply:haha





send me a message and a pic and i will tell you if ur really hot or not.





scarred_memory713@yahoo.com
Reply:I would come right out and tell him that you like him . Or if thats to forward ignore him and see what he does does he notice,does he care? Flirt or..... Bend and Snap!
Reply:Im 13 and boy do u have a lot to learn hun!


ok first stop thinking ur soo hot, people will look at u as a stuck up snob.





after u get over that, talk to him. flirt a little


hope it helps
Reply:maybe you shouldn't be so cocky and then you'll have some friends. As for the guy you should tell him you like him or leave a note in his locker saying to but it back in the girls locker that he likes. if he puts it in your locker then he likes you. But he might also think your cocky an not like you. Cuz you think you "so totaly hot"
Reply:Well you certainly have alot of self-esteam which is good. Give it time. He will find out sooner or later. Or push it alittle like just say hey were wearing the same color shirt cool. or say hey i have the same cell phone i love it! or something like that. Make him a card for his birthday since u know it.


Good Luck!
Reply:Maybe people make fun of you because you think you're so hot. People resent that. So try not to gush so much about it. Point out what you have in common.
Reply:your grades are dropping..........and yet you say that you both are str8 As students.......


get your story str8.


you're way to young to have those fits.


you're have a hard times making friends if you don't work on your attitude.
Reply:GET OVER URSELF! mayb he sees how much ur consieded and isnt interested. u seem to kare about ur commons so GET OVR URSELF!!!!!!!! oviously ur not as "hot" as u think. ur probly not gud enuf 4 him 4rm this point ov view





send me a pikk so i can see if ur hot or not::


ccpuppyluver@hotmail.com
Reply:u sound like a beautiful person. not just in the facel aspect. if u branched out and just let things role off your shoulders. that's how i met my boyfriend. and maybe just ask him to go out sometime, nothing mayjor. say "want to go to the movie sometime?" and maybe he will say yes! but just be big and bold and let your iner u come out!
Reply:Okay first of all honey, you need a reality check. If he's not already on top of you, you obviously aren't as hot as you think you are, so what aren't you telling us?


And as for matching everything? That's kind of creepy. Like you guys are twins or something, not dating material, plus the "not accidents" part is weirding me out. Do you stalk this guy or something?


I think your principals daughter is a tad jealous of you. But here's my advice about that: DON'T hide. Keep your head up. If you act like nothings wrong, everyone will forget, but if you keep making such a big deal about it, people will remember for years to come. And don't worry what people think of you so much. Middle and high school are preps for college, and you don't want to bust your chance to go to some big amazing school for a GUY who you probably won't even know when you're eighty. Stay focused on what's important, and you'll probably find someone even hotter in a few years.
Reply:Sounds like you are looking in a mirrow. Believe me, It would not work out with the two of you anyway. If he is that much like you he probably has an ego as big as yours. For two people to go together and both be stuck on themselves, there is just no way it would ever work.Forget about how great you are and think about other peoples accomplishments and maybe you can start to make some friends. Good Luck. You will need it.
Reply:Sometimes its not about the things that you have in common, sometimes its the differences that matter. So just because you have a few SMALL details in common it doesn't mean that much.





Also, if you're young, you have time. Don't try to make him like you, just spend time with him, let him get to know you. Don't come on too strong, a lot of guys don't like that. Just don't try to just have a boyfriend, you have a lot of time to find someone that you like and plenty of time for relationships later.
Reply:Your letting peoples words get the best of you. If someone says something bad about you, just shake it off. its not what they think about you, its what you think about you. now about the boy... he probably hasn't noticed you yet. you have to get the courage to walk up to him and say hi. if you never talk to him then its not gonna work. try to become his friend and take it from there. :)
Reply:First of all being pretty is half of being gorgeous. Looks are not everything and you are finding this out the hard way.


Second, no guy wants a look a like girlfriend. He wants someone who will enhance him and he them. By your own admittance you may just as well be his twin sister. Be different. Buy your own fav color cell phone. Don't try to match what he is wearing. So what you have the same birthday. That really isn't that sexy. How can he celebrate your birthday without thinking of his own. You want to stand out with your beautiful eyes and wavy hair.


Find yourself and be the best YOU anyone else can be.
Reply:To me, you sound pretty full of yourself.


I have three questions..?

1. What time of day is best for exercise?


2. Do you know any exercises for stronger skin on my knees and hips?


3. Is it true that you can get cancer if you keep your mobile phone near your body?

I have three questions..?
good weather/curl-ups/yes
Reply:1. in the morning because that is when you have the most energy
Reply:#1 answer:Morning u have alot of energy


#2 answer:Jog and sprint everyday outside if nice inside if cold.


#3 answer: Mabey because it vibrates and gives off electricity on ur hips.( like skin cancer )
Reply:1. In the morning when you are fresh


2. any kind of leg exercises


3. Everything causes cancer these days


99 Weird/Funny FActs!!!?

Which did u not know!??!?!?





1.A paper cannot be folded more than 9 times.


2. More calories are wasted by sleeping than sitting and watching tv.


3. The first object with a number scanning label is the chewing gum.


4.The Wright Brothers’ first flying journey is shorter than a Boeing 747 airplane’s wings.


5. In 1987,after an airline company reduced a small piece of olive on every first class passenger’s meals,$350,000 USD was saved annually.


6.Everyone drinks coffee to perk themselves up,but in fact an apple can perk one up more than a cup of coffee can.


7.The majority of dust in your home consists of your own dead skin.


8.The full name of the Barbie Doll is Barabra Millicent Roberts.


9.When Hitler’s mum had Hitler,she once seriously considered abortion but the doctor persuaded her to keep the baby.


10.Marilyn Monroe has 6 toes on her foot.


11.In the movie E.T,the sound of E.T’s footsteps are made by someone squashing oranges rotten.


12.Pearls melt in vinegar.


13.In the number of people posting marriage ads,35% are already married.


14.You can pull a cow upstairs,but the cow will not know how to come down by itself.


15.A pig cannot stare up at the sky.


16.”quick brown fox jumps over the lazy dog” has the 26 alphabets in it.


17.A duck’s quack will not have echos,the reason til now is unknown.


18.A snail can live for 3 years without food and sleeping.


19.Tommy Lee Jones and America’s vice-president were roommates in Harvard.


20.In a month,if the first day is Sunday then that particular month will have a Black Friday.


21.Heating up a rock in the microwave oven will cause the rock to explode.


22. 1,111,111 x 1,111,111 = 1234567654321


23.The only word that has 15 alphabets not reused in it is “uncopyrightable”.


24.A cat can produce over 100 types of sounds,but a dog can only do 10.


25.The darker the environment,the more frequent a cat’s passing urine times.


26.If you toss a coin upwards 1000 times,the number of times of heads facing upwards is 495.


27.According to the Newton dictionary the longest word in the world is pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanocon...


28.A human’s stomach will renew its food contents inside every 2 weeks,or else it will self-digest.


29.Coke was originally green in colour.


30.The Hawaiian language only has 12 alphabets.


31.The country with the highest proportion of people walking to work is Alaska.


32.If Barbie was a human,her measurements would be 39-23-33


33.On average,the number of people in the air every hour in America is 61,000 people.


34.Only honey will not turn bad forever.


35.Near the Carribean sea there’s a species of oysters that knows how to climb trees.


36.The world’s youngest parents appeared in 1910,an 8-year old and a 9 year-old Chinese people.


37.A human’s ears and nose never stop growing bigger and bigger


38.There’s a square-shaped melon in Japan,it was cultivated because of its convenience to place in refrigerators.


39.A starfish has 8 eyes,one on each leg.


40.Some insects’ eyes have hair.


41.A giraffe’s tongue measures 2 feet long in length.


42.An elephant can stand on its head.


43.An ant will scratch itself when it wakes up.


44.Thomas Edison is afraid of the dark.(so that’s why he invented the lightbulb lol)


45.The world’s oldest goldfish is 41 years old,named Fred.


46.Because of Einstein’s inability to speak at the age of 9,his mum once thought he


was retarded.


47.Arab women can initiate a divorce if their husbands don’t pour coffee for them.


48.Only 55% of Americans know that the Sun is a star.


49.Most lipglosses have fish scales content in them.


50.Giraffes cannot cough.


51.Owls are the only bird species able to differentiate numbers and colours.


52.A whale’s heartbeat only averages 9 times every minute.


53.The water that we drink into our body is already 3 billion years old.


54.Only 30% of people can expand and contract their nostrils at will.


55.A clam can switch its gender from male to female,and it will take place few times


throughout its life.


56.According to a British law passed in 1845,suicide is a very serious crime,death sentence of hanging is the punishment.


57.In space,astronauts are unable to cry or shed tears because there’s no gravity pull hence the tears are unable to come out.


58.A chameleon’s tongue is twice as long as its own body.


59.Americans use toothpicks most often.


60.On average a human must move his eye muscles for 10000 – 15000 times a day.


61.An elephant will still remain at its standing position even when it has died.


62.Some insects are still able to survive for a year without its heads.


63.Da Vinci spent 12 years alone painting Mona Lisa’s lips.


64.When glass shatters,the average speed for glass is 3000 miles per hour.


65.A dairy cow can produce more milk when listening to music.


66.A rose picked during afternoon can survive longer than a rose picked in the morning.


67.Baby tiger sharks fight each other in the womb,the winner will be able to be born alive.


68.A 70 pound octopus can only go through a hole a coin’s size because it does not have a vertebrae.


69.An Indonesian bamboo insect has the longest body in the world,as long as 1 feet.


70.In fact,a hippo can run faster than humans.


71.The inventor of parachutes gave the chance of parachuting first in the world to a dog.


72.A Japanese crab can be as long as 12 feet long.


73.A newborn turkey must be taught by its parents how to eat food,or else it will die of hunger.


74.A shark can detect blood content up to 1/1000000th percent in water.


75.the original meaning of Samba in the Samba dance actually meant “rubbing bellies together”


76.Children grow faster during spring.


77.Bats are the only mammals able to fly.


78.A catapillar has over 2000 muscles.


79.A human’s heart can produce pressure that can squirt blood 30 feet high.


80.A male mantis cannot mate with a female mantis with its head,so when they mate the female mantis has to chop the male mantis’ head off.


81.A shrimp’s heart is at its head.


82.You can never lick your elbow with your tongue.


83. 50% of the world population has not received any calls before at all.


84.A rat and a horse cannot vomit.


85. “Sixth Sick Sheik's Sixth Sheep's Sick” is one of the hardest sentences to pronounce in the English language.


86.If you sneeze too hard,it may cause your chest to rupture. But if you hold back your sneeze by force,it may cause one of your blood vessels to break.


87.If you talk on the phone for over an hour,the amount of ear **** in your ears will increase by 700 times.


88.A lighter was invented earlier than a matchstick.


89. When you sleep,you may eat over 70 kinds of small insects and about 10 spiders unknowingly.


90.The strongest and most flexible muscle in our body is the tongue.


91.It is impossible to sneeze with your eyes open.


92.It is impossible to kill yourself by holding your breath.


93.Everytime you lick the back of a stamp,you would have absorbed 1/10th of calories.


94.Right-handers live an average of 9 more years than left-handers.


95.Fish are unable to stick out their tongues.


96.Polar bears are left-handers.


97.An ostrich’s eyes are larger than their brains.


98.Starfish do not have brains.


99.Lice can jump over a distance 350 times longer than their bodies,equivalent to a human jumping over the length of a football stadium.

99 Weird/Funny FActs!!!?
lol wow
Reply:lol, those are awesome. Thanx~
Reply:learn something new everyday
Reply:didn't read em all


too lazy=)


but 14 %26amp; 15 are soo sad....=(





ps. you must of been bored !
Reply:what is ear ****? #87.
Reply:5, 35, etc,...i knew most of them tho!!!
Reply:Lol I only know 1 of them..#98..from an aquarium.





Haha thnks for putting it up :]
Reply:#31 Alaska is a state not a country.
Reply:Of course i tried to fold a piece of paper more then 9 times


chucks it didnt work
Reply:Didnt read through them all, but I skimmed around...a few of them I knew...most I didnt.





Thanks for the funny facts...love learning weird things!





*I tried saying #85 out loud...couldnt do it. LOL
Reply:wow intresting yet weird lol =D
Reply:Since I have read similar list since fifth grade and I am now in college I will have to say that I know...1-11; 13-26;28-45;47-62;64-75;77-99
Reply:Neat. Thanks.





Only 30% of people can expand and contract their nostrils at will.





--I can.
Reply:That took me a long time to read! Interesting though.. Where did you get those at? Or did you make them up, I have a hard time believing some of those!
Reply:i didnt know alot of those but there are some that are incorrect


such as the lickin ur own elbow one
Reply:i actually read all of it
Reply:AWESOME!
Reply:Wow
Reply:10 and 11 are actually urban myths...


10. Marilyn Monroe only had 10 toes, a 6th was rumored because of the way her foot was posed in a certain picture.


11. According to the Special Edition of E.T., his footsteps were made by massaging a package of cellophane-covered liver!
Reply:WOW. A lot of those I can do, like contract my nose. I didn't know that Polar Bears are left handers! I'm sorta creeped out about the one about eating insects and spiders in our sleep....ugh. lol. Thanks, i guess you learn something new everyday! =)





♥nikki


Other species or more technologically advanced civilizations in the universe, perhaps our galaxy?

With over 70,000,000,000,000,000,00 stars in the universe it's statistically impossible to be the only species in the universe. Do you think there's other species out there? Do you think we could be under the microscope by a more advanced civilization?





I think if we were under the microscope from a more technologically advanced species they'd be watching us for a reason....So we won't destroy other civilizations. Think about it, we can't even live collectively due to differing religious beliefs and different pigments of skin. How in the world would we treat someone with huge eyes and and a unicorn sticking out they're forehead?





Secondly, try not to belittle the forces of technology or science by saying it takes a thousand light years to get from Point A to Point B using high octane rocket fuel. A couple of hundred years ago we would have been calling a cell phone magic, and 777s mystical dragons.





Religious thoughts welcome

Other species or more technologically advanced civilizations in the universe, perhaps our galaxy?
I just watched something on Discovery about an ancient civilization in the Indian Ocean that was eleven thousand years ago. The Ocean obviously moved, and discovery is always true (a long time ago they said dolphins eat people?!). Is there life out there? Yes and probaly closer than we think. We assume life needs our conditions to exist, but this is almost certainly not true. Still it seems like it would have to be around where we are in a galaxy (to close to the center and it get's to hot). I don't think it needs to be where we are in our solar system though. Carl Sagan explained how life could've formed on Jupiter. I don't think any species has ever visited our planet, because life that intelligent probaly would be rare (mabey not). Well and about technology and the future. yes we increased the speed that we get from point A to point B with airplanes about two to five hundred times what it used to be, but to get to the nearest solar syster in a life time you would have to increse your speed by let's see fastest Rocket Ship 10km/s about time 1000 10000 Km/s 30X4.3 279 years /3 73 years so 3000 times what it is now. To get to the closest solar system in about seventy years. That's six times what the whole human history did. I'm not saying it's not possible but it's unlikely.
Reply:Why is it that persons who know so little about a topic are so eager to blow off some hot air with unscientific opinions regarding it? Where is your data to back up your 'statistacally impossible' claim? Report It

Reply:If you actually knew anything about stars you would know that 4/5 belong to binary and multiple star systems incapable of sustaining life forms. This reduces your number to 14,000,000,000,000,000,000. Report It

Reply:If you were a true master of statistics, you would realize how fortunate we are that the proper conditions came to be for Earth. It is not a commonplace occurance. Jupiter determined how much water Earth retained and the Moon's tide played a role in creation. Report It

Reply:Earth's iron core helps retain a breatheable atmosphere and protects us from the Sun's harmful radiation which would otherwise kill life forms. Your theory that simply because there are so many stars there must be life is based upon emotion not science. Report It

Reply:It is no wonder then why you choose to be ignorant regarding the immense size of the Universe and the difficulties travelling from point a to point b. Report It

Reply:make ur question short. it is difficult to read that long!


in the first line with figure, u have one zero less, add one zero to make it correct !!
Reply:of course there are. but they were soooo "already been here done that" to even bother us.


so why would we?
Reply:Just a note, Enrico Fermi once said in reference to the infinite universe and the supposed infinite number of life this would indicate, "If other life is out there, we would see it." That's paraphrase of course, but you can search the Fermi Paradox for the exact quote.
Reply:with over 700000000000000000000 stars in the universe I agree that there is life in other solar systems. But I think Hollywood has gone to you head when you sugest we're under a microscope...sorry.
Reply:Personally I believe we are not the only life forms in the universe,


but I'm skeptical these other living organisms look anything like us. I wouldn't even be surprised if they required different conditions to be met for them to live either. Which is to say, we keep on looking for places where water, oxygen and an atmosphere is present. What's to say that other species are able to cope under different conditions?





In terms of more technology advanced, I don't believe so. Being a Christian and a almighty god believer, I strongly believe that we have been given a path to be evolve into what is now a fairly technoglogy advanced society. This was a path for the human race to take, not another species.
Reply:Join the 'Society of Big Thinkers'





The big picture you espoused would not be believable unless an individual were a big thinker!





Do you think George Washington could visualize or believe in atomic energy.





If it were presented to him in a logical manner, he might have been able to accept it if he were a 'Big Thinker'


Big Thinkers believe in the possibility of the 'IMPOSSIBLE'





IT costs nothing to join us and it won't even bring you derision from 'small thinkers' if you keep quiet regarding your great vision:
Reply:Please us scientific notation. I do believe there is intelligent life out there but in our neighboring galaxy Andromeda. I would treat them with peace and respect and I rather live with them then this messed up world.
Reply:I think its only logical that if there are intelligent life out there, they would be just as curious about us, as we are about them. The bible never talks about other lifeforms, but that does not mean that God as we know him, did not create other life elsewhere in the universe. There is a lot we do not know about God, and a lot that is not considered important for life on earth.
Reply:we would be foolish to believe we are alone and the only advanced civilization, they are here and out there and tghere is no doubt
Reply:Maybe,


the drake equation will help.

elephant foot

Did my fiance do something awful with other men!? Or not? I'm split!!?

I’ll try this one more time.. Last weekend my fiance of a year and a half told me she was going to sleep. I knew better by the tone of her voice(She’s told white lies before that were purely innocent, so I kind of can tell when she’s lying sometimes). I went to her house and saw a silver truck outside. I never seen it before. I tried calling but her phone was off. I waited for her and the truck came back and dropped her off. A guy was driving. I confronted her and she got angry and insulted that I didn't trust her. She said it was her girlfriends(from work) boyfriend driving and her g/f was passed out in the backseat. I was mad, but trusted her because she's always been very honest and a conservative catholic. THEN a week later some guy approached me all sympathetic. Asked if I was dating Carmen, I said yes. he said she was over at his friends house drinking and had given the three of them blowjobs. I wanted to kill him. I went to her work, found a silver truck that resembled the one I saw that night, and it was a girl driving that was her friend, but I don't know if it was the same truck for sure..


I confronted the girl and she collaborated what my fiance said, but her story wasn't exact. The place they went that night was off. I had the feeling she was covering for her, but it might just be paranoia.. The guy said she had a dimple on her left *** cheek when I said he was full of ****. She doesn't, she has a mole there, was that what he meant? I haven't slept in two days the more I think of this the more my whole body shakes. My nerves are on edge. She's always been a real good girl and hates porn, strip clubs, etc. I don't know what to believe, and I don't know how to contact that guy again. What the hell should I do now? I feel guilty but angry if it's true.. I'm just completely baffled. The thought of anybody seeing her naked let alone multiple guys makes my skin crawl.. Oh and her excuse why she lied to me about going out was because she likes to mexican dance( I don't) and didn't want to hurt my feelings when she danced with her friends bf.

Did my fiance do something awful with other men!? Or not? I'm split!!?
yes she is. and she won't change believe me. my fiance cheated on me too, I did not believe it. I thought when we wed things would change , but she cheated eight monts into our marriage. it killed me I continue to love her. but I must get over her. she was my life, now I am forced to get a life of my own. Run is the only advice I can give you..
Reply:is this a serious question? she told you one thing and did another. you cannot trust this girl, even if she is Catholic and hates porn.
Reply:sounds to me like something is going on... but she's not going to tell u. the fact that the guy knew anything was on her a** cheek says it all. u need to talk to her. if she continues to go out an do things without u an u dont trust her u should end the relationship.. good luck
Reply:Clearly something is off, especially, that she chose to lie to yu no matter what her reasons were. That's not fair and ruins trust. The guy coming up to you. That's also a big red flag. Guys don't just do that. Sounds like she is creating a huge ripple in your trust, and w/o trust or with doubt, then don't rush to the alter. Keep in mind, she created this with her 1 little lie, so don't let anyone turn it around on you. Getting defensive is always a good indication of something not being honest. Follow your gut instinct on this, they are probubly very accurate.
Reply:Dude!!!! Kick that itch to the curb!!!!! Go with ur gut feelings.. She's cheating on u dude, do the math!!! it started with the lie ( going to sleep , next some guy dropping her off, then the cover up... story's didn't jive. My mother always told me 2+2=4, always has and always will...... the math along with ur gut feelin tells u she's playin u dude..... look past the fog, its all there. Lose that liar fast before things get out of hand. Find someone worth ur love and trust. My advice is to send that lut to the left!!!!
Reply:I know it hurts and you don’t want to believe that any of this is true but come on why is she lying to you about stupid things? there’s definitely something going on ...BUT I recommend that you dig into this a little deeper and find out what’s REALLY going on BUT BE QUIET ABOUT IT ...after that u don’t have to confront her or whatever coz she'll lie to u ....you can just leave !at least you'll have closure and you'll know if u made the right choice ...if she’s a good girl like you say she is then maybe this being with 3 guys stuff isn’t true ...I find that story very hard to believe because which respectable woman would give 3 guys blowjobs ..I would believe it if she was cheating on you with one particular other guy but that 3 guys stuff it too much ...maybe this guy that talked to you is an ex of hers who found out she was engaged and wants her back and wants to get you out of the picture or wants ruin her reputation ....anything is possible ...just find out before you jump to any conclusions ...it will be worth the effort I promise you and I agree with the person above about getting married anyway and then regretting it ...but I think its ridicules for her to just lie like that all the time ..Once you get married you will never be able to trust her again and things will fall apart...but i feel like u dont trust her anyway coz you went to her house even after she told u she was going to bed....whats the point in being a relationship if u dont trust the other person...but just find out whats going on for your sake and ur mental well being ...im really sorry your have to go through this ...good luck


I hate my roommate and can't switch rooms?

so, it's my first year of college and I'm having some roommate trouble. She seems well-meaning, but she's SO condescending and self-righteous. She didn't drink before college %26amp; ever since she found out that I have a past of mild drug use she acts like she's better %26amp; more responsible then me. She calls me "hon" which I for one find to be very condescending %26amp; she uses these annoying nicknames that I hate. She talks on the phone really loud with her mom or sister when I'm in the room. She makes really tactless comments, like the other day she was like "Oh my god, hon, you can she your veins right under your skin on your feet". in front of everyone. She also thinks she acts as some kind of maternal figure to me, she actually said "Oh my god, I'm so like a mom for you" She even started washing my pillowcase. it seems nice, sure, but I NEVER asked her to do that. I can do my own freakin' laundry. UGH! What should I do?

I hate my roommate and can't switch rooms?
apparently u're not a social person either...none of what your roommate had said is really irritating ..i know i wouldn't care!!! maybe she's trying to look out for you..maybe u do need someone like that around you..if not then just talk to her and to tell her that u learned from your past mistakes and now u're responsible enough to take good care of yourself... simple as that!!!!
Reply:Get another room mate....this one would drive me to drink, drugs,murder, arson,treason,marriage,kidnap,gun-runnin... Put a contract out on her.
Reply:Tell her.Tell her to leave your **** alone and to quit calling you hon. Tell her you have a mom and don't need another. When she's talking loud on the phone turn up the radio or t.v., of course you have to Tell her/ Ask her to quiet down on the phone. I would ignore the comment about your feet.. who really cares? I'm sure the people she said it in front of paid little to no attention to your feet.
Reply:hey! i think you should be patient wit her, with time things will get better. i also experience things lyk this in my dormitory in college. just try to blend wit her. its ur first year, so u may find it hard to deal with. give it time
Reply:Explain your issues that you have, with her, not us!!


People who works at Hollister!!!! (and people who don't) help please!?

Today while in church I had a phone call which I didn't answer and they left a message and it was from Hollister that I was being offered the possition (model) that I had applied 2 weeks ago and I called back and they told me to go to my orientation tomorrow.


What I want to know is what to expect, what do they do during the orientation, what should I ask, etc... do you like working there? is the people nice? benefits and please tell me everything overall.


I am very happy because I got this job so I want to know everything. By the way, I don't think they're racist as many people say because I am hispanic and have dark skin with and I am not skinny unlike many of the girls who works there and I got the job anyways.

People who works at Hollister!!!! (and people who don't) help please!?
Hey, you answered my question just a while ago and you told me to answer your question...sorry to say but i really dont know..all i know is that i LOVE hollister and im addicted to it..hahaha.....o yeah, i know what you mean by the racist thing, ppl who work there ARE NOT racist so i dont know what other ppl are talking about.....congratulations and i hope it will work out for you!!
Reply:Chill out. You'll be fine. Orientation is when they show you what is where and who is who, bits and ieces about the job. Hollister - if you're talking about central California - is a small agricultural place, nice people, easy going, lots of Hispanics, no racism. I have no idea about benefits in that company, but you'll know soon enough. Like I said, you'll be just fine.
Reply:I think you will do great! I never really thought they were racist, but I did notice that they never really had many different races of people shopping, working, or modeling there. So it is GREAT that you are modeling there. They can be a little rude there, but once you get to know them they are fine. They don't really deal with alot of your own personal issues with the store or whatever. So, beware of this. They aren't exactly what I would call "sweet hearted" when it comes to what you need. lol. But good luck!!!!!!


My first pap smear cam back abnormal?

I had my first pap smear a couple weeks ago. I was sent a letter in the mail saying that it came back normal, but then today I got a phone call from the nurse saying she sent me the wrong letter and that my test was abnormal and she made me make another appointment for a colposcopy.





A couple weeks leading up to my first pap smear, I had had a mild rash show up inside my labia that kinda looked like tastebuds and they itched really bad. The tiny bumps were still visible when I went in for the test, but when I pointed it out to the Doctor she said that everything looked fine and that the bumps were just part of the natural skin texture down there. So anywho, I'm scared now since the pap smear came back abnormal...could it be HPV? I've only had sex 3 times, used a condom EVERY time. And the bumps I had were not blisters, and the doctor said they looked fine. So what could be the problem!?

My first pap smear cam back abnormal?
almost every female has had an abmormal pap at some point in time. i would wait til the results for the colposcopy come back before you start to worry. i know it's easier said than done, but there is no need to worry yet
Reply:I have had an abnormal pap before because of a cervical infection. I would recommend calling back to talk to the doctor to ask what they found out on this pap that was making it abnormal to see if something like an infection could have caused this.
Reply:I am so sorry this happened to you with your first pap!





It is very common for women to get a colposcopy. I have had one myself. HPV is very common and I would guess she wants to take a closer look at the cervix to see if you have any signs of dysplasia.





If you do have dysplasia, it is treatable. I would say 70% of my friends have had dysplasia at one time in their lives. Not one of us have gotten cancer.





Good luck. Good for you for getting a pap and using a condom!

agave

Does he want me back???

my ex of 3.5 years brock up with me cuz he said i nag and *****. to much i want things my way. and after when i took a look at somethings he were right. and i know what i have to change.





the things is , is that he told me that he got another gurl. the onlii way he told me this was cuz i nag him to much about it! when i didnt ask he dont say anything about her. when i ask him like whats her name how she look he says dont worry about it and its not important.





i think that if i were him and if he would be asking me so much about my "new bf" then i would also be like 4get about it and its not important!





well thank got that he still talk 2 me. i told him that i see things that i did wrong and i will change that way i was liek for now i want to be ur friend and i will always be there 4 u if u need me and he said okey.





then after that i still nag him and he said that what i say is bull **** cuz i dont change.





after that i didnt talk 2 him for like 3 days then i text him to see how he was doing and he was like.. iam about to go chill with my gurl.


i did t believe him and i was like okey have fun and be safe! next day his mom called me to talk 2 me about something about said to me that he was over her house yest. the time was the same when he told me that he was about to go chill wit her.





my cousin said that he did that to check on me like what i would say if i would nag him or ***** about it. iam happy i did the right thing and just with him to have a happy time.





i know he loves me and cares he even said that himself after a break up. when i ask him do u think we can be 2gether he says idk


there are times now when we talk on the phone for hours and not get bord.





if he would have another gf. why would he be talking to me for long, checking me if i would ***** about things or nag him.


he told his mom he needs time to breath and didntell her about his new gf. and they are close he tells her everything.





so do u guys think he wants me back? because the small things that he say or do to me like when we was walking and my shirt went up a lil and my skin was shown (iam not a ****, i dont show much of my body at all)


he told me to put my shirt down. then when i play around and be like ohhh we can still have sex and he be like ohh iam not a cheater and then i say me 2 we can still have fun. he says ill think about it.


or when he looks at me i cnn see in his eyes he lovess and misss me!!!!


like all of this show me he loves me and cares i know i have to give it time but do u think he loves me and wants me back slowlii just to be friends for now then let it grow?





p.s i thank all of you who will answer me and support mme cuz iam reallii goin through bad and hard times and plzz no bull liek leave him alone and move on or anything like that i really want to hear a good answers that u guys can give me thnak you!

Does he want me back???
Well sometimes a good answer and what you want to hear are two totally different thing. You may as well say don't tell me the truth, tell me what I want to hear. Just because people may tell you what YOU want the HEAR, doesn't make it a good answer. Deep down in your heart you know the answer to your question, however, you don't want to accept it. Accepting the truth is all a part of growing up. Life does not always go the way we would like for it to. The most important thing is that we learn from mistakes and become better people. For now the best thing is for you to move on with your life. If you two were meant to be together then somewhere down the line you will be together. If not, then believe it or not life goes on and you will meet other guys that will make you forget all about this guy. In the meantime, the Caveman will be praying for you. I wish you all the best. Peace and God bless.
Reply:Well, I hope he does.
Reply:^^ HEY, can I get an autograph on that novel? ^^





I hope so... best I can say.
Reply:Well............I personally hope he does.. if not im all urs! =Þ
Reply:Oh yeah girl he wants you back! go back and have make up sex with him!!!


Have Fun!
Reply:you need to back off and if he comes runnin' back, then there's a chance. seems to me that you're acting a little bit too desperate.
Reply:probably
Reply:see http://www.howtodealwithabreakup.com
Reply:In addition to nag and b**ch, I'd add whine. Beyond that, ex's are ex's for a reason so let it go.
Reply:You need to accept him as he is. It is not your job to change him, and you can NOT change him. What you see is what you get. Are you nagging about the big things or just the small things? Now, the question is, are you willing to live with who and how he truly is? Be true to yourself and honest with yourself. If you are not, then he is really not the man for you. IF you are willing to accept him without trying to change him, then he will eventually come back around.
Reply:I think he just misses your stimulating intellectual discussions on important topics and perhaps your scholarly insights.
Reply:We all have issues. If one of yours is the need to feel in control of your surroundings that is one thing that you can definately work on.





You deserve to be in a healthy relationship. I am sure part of you nags because he is not meeting your needs or he is being irresponsibile. It is ok for you to move on and find someone stronger... and responsible. Someone who can bring the same as what you bring to a relationship.





Keep smiling and dont let people dog you because of their own faults. You clearly care deeply about him. If he cannot see that... its his loss... never yours.





Good luck
Reply:yes he might! And if he dont he stinks ok! its his lose. Cuz you sound like the kind of friend i wanna be around. and if he said you nagged or ******* 2 much. your a princess. if he didnt get you what you wanted he should -B- thrown in the dungen! "evil laugh"
Reply:no you nag to much stop nagging
Reply:You don't want the truth, you want someone to side with you... Based on your question and LETTER alone,,, you are young and a real DRAMA QUEEN..


OK, so don't move on.. hang around him, because you sound very CO-DEPENDENT on him... get your heart broke, be sad,, some of us have to learn the HARD way..


you asked and I say.. No he doesn't want you... he wants you as a back up... and if that is what you want to be.. HAVE AT IT..!!!


GO be constructive with your life, go hang around some OTHER friends if you can leave him alone for 30 days.. good luck..
Reply:I am going to tell you something that should stick with you 4ever.... They always come back it is the way you handle yourself right now that makes the difference on how they return and when. Right now you are showing exactly what he thought of you 2 be true, you are nagging him and probably getting on his nerves. He loves you no doubt about that but he needs his space. Occupy your time with something else. Don't call him don't text him nothing. Let him call you and miss his calls a couple of times. When you do talk to him do not mention his gf and don't mention how much you want to be with him. He knows trust me. Have casual conversations with him. Then he will come to terms that you are where he wants to be. If you keep up what you are doing you will push him away and when he does come back it will be to let you know that he is happy somewhere else. Be confident. Confidence is key.
Reply:Well maybe... but if you can't stop nagging an *** you will lose him. Can you do that? That is the truth as I see it, and as the source of your trouble as you said so yourself. I could tell you the root of your problem but you don't want to hear anything but good answers as you have told us and he has said you want all your own way. You said you could change, but have you? Do you expect him to change and put up with this? I am only repeating what you said. Now how well do you listen, really listen? He's told you and you heard it but don't heed it. Good luck.
Reply:Well he probably does want a 'break' from you. You love and miss him so you try to stay in as much contact with him as you can. (which is what most ppl in your situation want to do, including myself) But the best way to get someone back is to give them what they want. If he wants space, then give it to him. Also if he sees that you are not worried about him then he might want to contact you more. Right now he is playing hard to get. Flip the rolls. YOU start playing hard to get. That doesn't mean that you can't contact him at times, but just do it less than what you normally do. Make him wonder what your doing. Let him know you care but at the same time don't let him think he has you at his feet.


Also, he does NOT have a gf............trust me. If he did, he would try to 'show her off' not hide her. I think from what you have told us, that he does still love you and he wants to be with you, but you need to really work on some things. Not just long enough to get him back, but long enough to keep him. If not, then you will only loose him again if you get him back. Take time and work on any issues with yourself and make him chase you.


Good luck.......3+ years is a loooong time to just throw away! I really hope the two of you are able to work things out!


Is he acting like this cuz he wants me back?

my ex of 3.5 years brock up with me cuz he said i nag and *****. to much i want things my way. and after when i took a look at somethings he were right. and i know what i have to change.





the things is , is that he told me that he got another gurl. the onlii way he told me this was cuz i nag him to much about it! when i didnt ask he dont say anything about her. when i ask him like whats her name how she look he says dont worry about it and its not important.





i think that if i were him and if he would be asking me so much about my "new bf" then i would also be like 4get about it and its not important!





well thank got that he still talk 2 me. i told him that i see things that i did wrong and i will change that way i was liek for now i want to be ur friend and i will always be there 4 u if u need me and he said okey.





then after that i still nag him and he said that what i say is bull **** cuz i dont change.





after that i didnt talk 2 him for like 3 days then i text him to see how he was doing and he was like.. iam about to go chill with my gurl.


i did t believe him and i was like okey have fun and be safe! next day his mom called me to talk 2 me about something about said to me that he was over her house yest. the time was the same when he told me that he was about to go chill wit her.





my cousin said that he did that to check on me like what i would say if i would nag him or ***** about it. iam happy i did the right thing and just with him to have a happy time.





i know he loves me and cares he even said that himself after a break up. when i ask him do u think we can be 2gether he says idk


there are times now when we talk on the phone for hours and not get bord.





if he would have another gf. why would he be talking to me for long, checking me if i would ***** about things or nag him.


he told his mom he needs time to breath and didntell her about his new gf. and they are close he tells her everything.





so do u guys think he wants me back? because the small things that he say or do to me like when we was walking and my shirt went up a lil and my skin was shown (iam not a ****, i dont show much of my body at all)


he told me to put my shirt down. then when i play around and be like ohhh we can still have sex and he be like ohh iam not a cheater and then i say me 2 we can still have fun. he says ill think about it.


or when he looks at me i cnn see in his eyes he lovess and misss me!!!!


like all of this show me he loves me and cares i know i have to give it time but do u think he loves me and wants me back slowlii just to be friends for now then let it grow?





p.s i thank all of you who will answer me and support mme cuz iam reallii goin through bad and hard times and plzz no bull liek leave him alone and move on or anything like that i really want to hear a good answers that u guys can give me thnak you!

Is he acting like this cuz he wants me back?
He doesn't like you in that way. Get over him. His reason for breaking up with you, was, you were nagging him too much?! If he can't accept you for who you are, forget him. A guy that really loves you for who you are will accept any fault in your personality.


Where can i find a good waxing shop in KL?

Hi, I'm currently surveying for a good shop that have professional waxers and hygienic, that offer the service of waxing especially Brazilian wax. I need to know the budget that i should have for it cos this is my first time and how long for our skin to feel normal to have sex after the wax?? It would be great if you can include the store website or phone number as well! Thank you!!

Where can i find a good waxing shop in KL?
Well I'm not quite sure where KL is but I can tell you the rest of the info. For brazilians the rate can be anywhere from $40-$150 depending on the location, and who the person doing it is ( a lot of times if you get "famous" beauticians they will use that in order to overcharge you) etc. The first time I had it done it was painful during but not after, if you have someone that knows what they are doing they will make it quick and they will place oils on that will relieve the pain and help heal and slow the hair-growth process.

snake plant

People who works at Hollister!!!! and people who don't too I need help?

Today while in church I had a phone call which I didn't answer and they left a message and it was from Hollister that I was being offered the possition (model) that I had applied 2 weeks ago and I called back and they told me to go to my orientation tomorrow.


What I want to know is what to expect, what do they do during the orientation, what should I ask, etc... do you like working there? is the people nice? please tell me everything overall


I am very happy because I got this job so I want to know everything. By the way, I don't think they're racist as many people say because I am hispanic and have dark skin with and I am not skinny unlike many of the girls who works there and I got the job anyways

People who works at Hollister!!!! and people who don't too I need help?
im confused, so your going to model for them, or work for them in their store?? i know if your asked to work there then you have to go to an orientation. working at hollister is a joke, no offence, theyll offer anyone that walks in thier store a position as long as your wearing a lot of crap from there.


Have you heard of this makeup business???

I am a two year customer of bare Minerals, but I recently found this website froma business called Flawless Skin Mineral Makeup. has anyone bought or even heard of them?? Their website looks very generic and doesn't have any information about h ow they started, any copyright date,a phone number for customer service, or pictures of their empoloyees. Their eye colors look great, so I wanted to knwo what they were about. Any infor would be great!! Thanks!

Have you heard of this makeup business???
why would you stray from bare minerals??? i love it! if you are wanting them cheaper, you can find tons of real bare minerals products on ebay!
Reply:yes i have heard of something like that but im nt sure xx
Reply:Never heard of it... but, make sure you check consumer reports on it before you buy anything. Also, make sure you can exchange or return if it isn't what you thought.
Reply:If they don't have a customer service number, then they are illegitimate for sure. Don't buy anything from there.
Reply:never heard of them. so i would tend to say, stand clear. also, do yourself a favor and try MAC. yes they are expensive as all get out, but as a long time MAC customer/user....they give me the kind of coverage i am looking for. and oh by the way, i am a TGirl. a pre op TS.
Reply:If you want to check out amazing mineral make up with tons of eye and cheek colors as well as mineral powder foundation you should check out www.arbonne.com click on shop online and look under About face color. It is phenomneal I have used bare minerals before but this is by far better. Arbonne is a 26 year old company with lots of history. Check it out let me know if you have any questions.

sorrel

A room in Kent with stripey walls for a photoshoot please?

Basically, I want it to have big bold stripey wallpaper - preferably brown %26amp; beige stripes, basic colour flooring and ceiling, and preferably a red velvet-like chair but if not never mind.


It's got to be in Kent, as cheap as possible, easy to get to. Prehaps some sort of palace or something.


Can't be someone's house as we are only 14.





I have a friend who has very pale skin and very white hair and blue eyes, she's stick thin and absolutley beautiful. I'd like to do a photoshoot of her wearing old style sort of clothes.





Do you know somewhere where I can find one of these rooms please?


And if possible, a phone number or website please?








Thankyou in advance :)

A room in Kent with stripey walls for a photoshoot please?
A completely different idea.. and yet still a bit dodgy.. set the photoshoot in some derilict building (or one where someone's doing a lot of demolition). Contrast between the beautiful model and the deriliction and destruction.. quite cool. Used by Lithium Picnic in some of his work.


Who do you think was behind the smear campaign against McCain in the South Carolina 2000 Primary?

People in some areas of South Carolina began to receive phone calls in which self-described pollsters would ask, “Would you be more likely or less likely to vote for John McCain for president if you knew he had fathered an illegitimate black child?”





It was a reference to Bridget, who was adopted as a baby from an orphanage in Bangladesh and is darker skinned than the rest of the McCain family. Richard Hand, a professor at Bob Jones University, sent an e-mail message to “fellow South Carolinians” telling recipients that Mr. McCain had “chosen to sire children without marriage.”





Literature began to pepper the windshields of cars at political events suggesting that Mr. McCain had committed treason while a prisoner of war in North Vietnam, that he was mentally unstable after years in a P.O.W. camp, that he was the homosexual candidate and that Mrs. McCain, who had admitted to abusing prescription drugs years earlier, was an addict.


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Who do you think was behind the smear campaign against McCain in the South Carolina 2000 Primary?
Rove.
Reply:George W Bush
Reply:Karl Soulless Rove.
Reply:The great architect, Karl Rove. That guy will get anybody elected.


A Question for all ladies ,about age?

To make a story short I met this African American,in a Cabaret,his date (just close friend) build him up to me that he is single, a good man,have a job,own his place,we exchange phone# , we talk to know each other,we did not exhange age, out of the blue he ask me,%26gt; What are going to do with a young man ? I was shocked I thought I did not hear it right ,I ask him to repeat the question 3 x he said he is 47 I thought he said 27,African American looks young of their nice skin. What will be your reaction and answer to his question ? Thanks ,that is my latest pic in the avatar.

A Question for all ladies ,about age?
your question is confusing.... you didn't state your age





what exactly are you asking?





after your added details, he is younger yes, but you are both "old enough" the age difference should not be a problem, he was being flirty with you, it may have made you uncomfortable but I wouldn't question his ethics, be flattered
Reply:if you feel offended. then don't be. he apparently likes you by his question, he was just worried about how you would feel. if you are not comfortable with him anymore, then tell him so


Should i ask her out - or is she not interested?

Hello all. There is this woman i really really like. She has gotten under my skin like no one before. We dont meet together but i meet her regularly through work. I asked her out for a drink last week. She said she would like to go but that she was really busy with thanksgiving etc and to call her in a few weeks. She passed me her business card with cell phone written on the back. I am thinking of asking her out tomorrow. This is one week after i asked her out - hopefull she doesnt think im pestering her. Im woried that im wasting my time anyway - if she was really interested she would have accepted my invitation last week. Like i said im really into her - it will hurt if she turns me down. Any thoughts/advice would be welcome.

Should i ask her out - or is she not interested?
dude i would hold off a little longer. there is some truth to what she is saying. the festive season can be pretty full on. with family stuff and buying presents. if you come on to striong and like you said pester her, she will not go out with you. she is definitely keen to go out with you though, otherwise she woulnt have given you her number. keep talking to her at work, say hello etc. but wait a little longer before you ask her out.
Reply:ask her
Reply:be honest with her and lay it all on the table how you feel...better to be told no than to be told i am busy
Reply:go for it boi





what have ya got to lose?
Reply:I think you should go for it! I know when the same thing happened to me, that i was really upset i couldn't go, i had to study for exams and was hoping the whole time that he would ask again.





Good Luck :)
Reply:WAKE UP "L O O O S E R" what does she have to do draw you a picture...anyway one should NEVER **** where one eats...what a marooooooooon!
Reply:Give her a call. The hurt you will receive will be small compared to the great happiness you feel from that "yes" answer.
Reply:my advice would be take it slow and let her know you like her and she how she feels for you and if she feels the same then you both should hit it off
Reply:ask her
Reply:Maybe she really was busy. It was Thanksgiving...





I'd ask her out again and if she gives you another excuse, then you give her your number and say something like, "well, when you do have time, give me a call if you'd like to have a drink..." Then you just forget about it. The ball is in her court.
Reply:Okay, I don't know about other women, but I love it when a man chases after what he wants.


You only asked her out once so ask her again. She may have really truly been busy.





But you never know what could have been unless you try and don't not ask her because then you risk regretting your choices and you'll constantly be thinking 'what ifs'.





Ask her. Good luck.
Reply:If she gave you her card with her personal cell number on the back, then she was probably being honest, and just taking a rain check. Call her! If you don't, you'll always wonder "what if", and that is a miserable feeling. If she doesn't accept, your feelings will be hurt, but trust me, you'll get over it eventually. It's always better to know one way or the other.
Reply:Take the chance...ask her!





Don't be put off by her declining last week, Thanksgiving is a busy, busy time for most of us (whether we want it to be or not).





Take a deep breath...pick up the phone...punch those numbers.





Let us know how it went.
Reply:When did she pass you her card? If it was today, then definitely ask her out again. Maybe start with lunch so there is less pressure and less risk on your part. She wont just say, "no" if she is not interested, she will give an excuse. If that happens, then just move on. The Thanksgiving reason seems valid to me.





Will you answer my last question about a shy man? I could use your imput. Thanks!
Reply:Make it a very undate like event, such as coffee, walk her to her car, lunch, go shopping together for something silly.


This way you become friends first. It certainly would not hurt at all if you ended up finding out you are really not each otehrs type.
Reply:Don't be so worried just call and ask ... the worst she can say is no . but hey that isn't the end of the world ... go out by urself with friends you will find another intrest. Good-luck
Reply:aaww thats sooo cute!! sori but it is! maybe she honestly couldnt come out with you the other time because she was really busy. i think if u really like her, go for it! its better to know how she feels so that if she does like u, u can start having a relationship, and if she doesnt.. as much as it is going to hurt it would hurt more to wait and get in even deeper later down the track. do what your heart tells u and if its meant to be, it will.


Good Luck!! :) and i hope this helps
Reply:It won't hurt to ask, if you don't ask her out how do you know she is not interest it? it hurt more if you think she like you and later found out she is with someone else...just approach her as normal act...ask her that if she like to have time for Starbucks coffee with you while you on your way there? it's good if she goes...what the hex if she don't...whose care?...find other woman if she turn you down...good luck.
Reply:So you don't think that her time is important - family commitment is not as important to you as it is to her? You sound selfish but I could be wrong. So I'll go on.


She sounds nice and more importantly, she sounds like what you like. Some people take time and unless you want to take the time to get to know this person before moving forward, then you shouldn't even start. She sounds like she will be a challenge for you and certainly a time commitment.


If you feel more comfortable, wait another week but call her. You will never know unless you do.
Reply:she gave i her number, she could have been busy, what is the worst that can happen if she would turn u down, nothing. u just have no confidence in yourself, u don't think u are worthy, but why not. u are just as much entitled to be with someone as the next guy. we have to watch out for the negative things we say to ourselves than aren't true. she will not think u are pestering her she is expecting your call. have more self confidence in yourself, whatever happened in your past to make u second guess yourself, get rid of that negativity. she has no reason not to accept your invitation. and u have every thing to gain by asking her out. when u ask her out show confidence in yourself, if u get turned down, it has nothing to do with u, just means she may have another date,and u should try several times before giving up and throwing in the towel.
Reply:WOW. Its nice that you care so much to question your next move. Maybe she really was busy last week??? But still she went to the trouble of actually writing her personal number out for you on a very not-so-personal business card. Try to bump into her a bit more a work, see how her thanksgiving was, have a conversation and make sure she notices you. See if she is really seeing you and talking to you, or if she is just giving you the bump. Give her a ring in a day or two and see how you go. You'll never know unless you ask. I hope it all works out

shamrock

What should I get paid?

This is what a family offer to me also I'm going to start college in the fall as a freshman I think it a pretty good deal


Oh and in regards to your pay - we can afford $175/week to start and will give a review in 90 days and again at 1 year.





We will also give 2 weeks paid vacation, paid holidays, 4 paid sick days and will provide all your personal care products you need (shampoo, soap, skin care, you name it) + a private room and a shared guest bath.





We will furnish the room with everything you need including a computer with high speed internet, a phone, tv, dvd player and cable tv. We'llput a deck in your room too if you want one.





We have 3 cars so once you are licensed you may use our car and we will add you on the insurance.








Is this a good deal to you guys I don't think it's bad at all I'm just worry about health insurance

What should I get paid?
you never said what the job is...
Reply:What are you gettinng paid for, I am totally confused, someone has offered you all of this just because you are a college freshman, I say you can't beat it.
Reply:What is the job? Sounds like a good deal to me.


Exp w/ Laser Hair Removal - and UCLA Institute of Laser Medicine?

Has anyone had any experience with laser hair removal at UCLA Institute of Laser Medicine? I have light skin w/ dark brown hair. I'm wondering how much it costs to get it done. (Legs, underarms, bikini area) When I asked on the phone they wouldn't tell me.... they wouldn't even give me a general range on what it could cost. I understand that it can vary based on individual factors. But, does anyone have any idea what the ballpark cost is?





Does anyone have any other experience with the center or with the procedure in general that they can pass on? Or point me to any research or info on the risks involved?





Thanks in advance!

Exp w/ Laser Hair Removal - and UCLA Institute of Laser Medicine?
I once had a unibrow. Later i lit a cigarette with a lighter that was amped up. Now i have no unibrow and i don't smoke anymore.


Freaky or what??

omg this guy who i've never met in my whole entire life,who claims he knows what i do and what time i do it at,where i go,when i go to bed.whenever i get the chance to talk to the guy he never tells his name and he says hes over the age 30,and i dont know how he got my phone number?? but this is what he keeps sending me in the mail/email/message!:





"hiding behind the shadows,ill be waiting in the dark to drive this blade straight through your heart,ill drag your body to the car,as blood races down my arm,i think everyone will wonder where you are.and i've been dreaming about you,in a pool of your own blood with your eyes gouged out,by the work of my thumbs.the scent of your insides from under the floor boards,the perfect perfume.and ill hide you in my walls,your body will never be found , i'll wear your skin as a suit and pretend to be you.your friends will like you more than they used to"


.......... uh yeah thats it and its freaking me out so bad,what should i do??

Freaky or what??
Can someone say, stalker?





I think you need to call the police.
Reply:CALL THE FBI OR THE COPS!!! Dude that is really weird... I do not even know how you sleep. I would be p!ssing my pants right now. But for real you need to call someone and have them be with you. I hope you may have a gun??? But for real call law enforcement
Reply:Call the police and then take some... precautions. Select a safe room.





Clear the walkway to your house of any hiding hazards.


Place shades on all of your windows and keep them shut.


Set up a motion activated light outside (and inside if you can)


Get a good alarm service.


Carry a cellular phone.








Always carry a weapon; mace, taser, baseball bat





Compartmentalize your house such that individual sections can be locked off from the inside.





Choose a safe room (such as a bedroom with adjoined bath), which can be surveyed in a single glance. If you have doors on your closet, remove them.


Always enter the room weapon ready. Lock the door. Do a thorough search of the room.


Have battery powered lamps as well as food stored in your safe room.


1- Place bars on the windows


2- Add a lock or three to the door, including internal ones





Set up traps / hazards outside the safe room, examples:


1- Low hanging (neck level) piano wire


2- Trip wires (attach to nasty things if you want; pepperspray, miniclaymore- if you can figure out how to make one)


3- Place paper or pencil lead in your doors; check to see if its disturbed before entering.


4- Place razorblades behind your doorknobs


5- Nails, Broken glass, tacks on the floor, pointing up


6- Can anyone say motion tracking turrets? (hackaday)





To increase the efficacy of the traps, see if you can connect the lightswitch of the selected rooms to your safe room. That way, once you are inside, no one can turn on lights except for you.





Get a dog... a large, vicious one. Let it roam the house. Train it to greet you on your return and maim anyone else.





If he is fairly accurate about your routine... change it daily. Monitor to see if you are being followed. Set up checkpoints where they may become visible. If you identify a suspicious person, check for them at other points. Stalk them back.





Basically, make sure they die if they try and act on their plans.
Reply:Call the police ASAP!
Reply:Stop socializing on line for a while....could be anyone sending you that crap.
Reply:thats insane


call somebody


maybe even move


thats so freaky its disgusting
Reply:Thats Freaky
Reply:CALL THE POLICE-- NOW!
Reply:those are the lyrics to ride the wings of pestilence by from first to last


How to deal with the emotional ups and downs when my husband left me and my kids?

I am emotional and physically drained from him. He is playing head games with me and my children. He threatens me with not paying the bills, while he left me hanging with a house and kids and animals to take care of. He continuously shoots me down as soon as i get on my feet. He calls me to argue with me and he knows it get under my skin. I still love him and miss him but am very angry with the hurt and pain he has caused me and the kids. Why am I feeling this way, I want it over with, I dont want this feeling anymore. He says why couldnt I be a wife, nothing else comes out of it. He calls me to check up on me then says for me to stop bothering him. I dont even pick up the phone to call him for anything because he brings me right down when im feeling ok. He calls me all sorts of names and accuses me of all sorts of things, thens says he could give a rats *** what I do. I dont get it. How could someone be so evil. He is a very hard person to talk to, he brushes everything off

How to deal with the emotional ups and downs when my husband left me and my kids?
Well first of all I think he isn't over you, why else would he bother you although he most likely wants to be over to you but he just can't seem to do it. So therefore he feels that if he down talks you and make you feel bad then it will get him what he wants but it doesnt so he keeps doing it. But the trick is when he trys to put you down you need to come back with something that way he may be caught of guard and will give up this rudeness. Well until next time when he thinks he can attack you but you can't let him know that it gets to you act as if you can take it and come up with your own insult.
Reply:when my hubby left me i was down, but i had a male friend that encouraged me to get out there, and start talking to my old friends, and hang out with them, so i did that, i never even cried when he left, i was sorta relieved that he did leave, then he calls and bugs me, and always seeing what i was doing, i say why does it matter were not together remember you left me, but of course, were back together, and doing better then ever, but one of theses days he will do it again, and cheat.
Reply:i have been thru the same emotional rollercoaster you are on now. he will do it as long as you allow him to do it. when he threatens you with this or that, well think about the worst that could happen, accept that it may happen, and tell him to kiss off. let him sit and stew awhile and wonder where you finally got your backbone from. its a hard hard road to get up and pick up the pieces. especially if you are relying on him for financial stability. when he calls, let the kids answer and talk to him. if he is calling to check up on you, cut him off as soon as he ask, by saying, oh crap, i will have to call you right back, and hang up, then dont call back. sometimes, a mediator is a way to talk. i had to have a friend of mine get involved for a little while, as much as i hated to do so. he knows just what buttons to push, with you and he will do it until he is no longer permitted to do so. you have to get strong and hard. how can someone be so evil? well he didnt get that way over night!
Reply:sounds to me like he has some issues sweetie. I can't say I haven't been there though. First off you need ot go to family court and get him on a visitation schedule and get child support. Then if I was you I would let him talk to voicemail. Tell him look you left you made the choice to hurt me and the kids like this now I am done with the games. I am sure that you still love him but honestly is he acting like he loves you? There are programs out there to help you with bills and ect. Go to the Department of family and children services and get what you can to get you through to get you on your feet, they have food stamps, wic, medicaid ect. It will keep you from having to depend on someone who is not dependable right now. Then you and the kids get some counseling, and make yourselves feel better. He is the one with the issues sweetie. Now he has left you no choice but to be there for your kids. I know it's hard so I reccomend counseling and there is usually support groups for you and in school for the kids. It will be a rough road but once you get over it and used to it YOU WILL be a stronger woman and amazed at what you have made it through.


Good Luck
Reply:Time to stop focusing on him. You've got a high hill to climb over so pay attention to the problems that are on your plate right now. While you're at it--redefine what "love" is. Love is more than feelings--it's as much a partnership as it is a feeling. He's not your partner. Feelings are great, and they're important, but they're just feelings--and there's more to love and life than just feelings. One smart guy put it this way--have your feelings; don't let your feelings have you.





The next time he threatens you with nonpayment, threaten him with legal action for child support.
Reply:This man is on a power trip. take legal action immediately. this is flat out abuse.Cut him off at the knees. do not return his calls nor take them. Get a restraining order if possible. Don't let him live in your head rent free. Men can be drama queens too. You just found one.
Reply:Try B12 that helps with nerves.

oxalis