I’ll try this one more time.. Last weekend my fiance of a year and a half told me she was going to sleep. I knew better by the tone of her voice(She’s told white lies before that were purely innocent, so I kind of can tell when she’s lying sometimes). I went to her house and saw a silver truck outside. I never seen it before. I tried calling but her phone was off. I waited for her and the truck came back and dropped her off. A guy was driving. I confronted her and she got angry and insulted that I didn't trust her. She said it was her girlfriends(from work) boyfriend driving and her g/f was passed out in the backseat. I was mad, but trusted her because she's always been very honest and a conservative catholic. THEN a week later some guy approached me all sympathetic. Asked if I was dating Carmen, I said yes. he said she was over at his friends house drinking and had given the three of them blowjobs. I wanted to kill him. I went to her work, found a silver truck that resembled the one I saw that night, and it was a girl driving that was her friend, but I don't know if it was the same truck for sure..
I confronted the girl and she collaborated what my fiance said, but her story wasn't exact. The place they went that night was off. I had the feeling she was covering for her, but it might just be paranoia.. The guy said she had a dimple on her left *** cheek when I said he was full of ****. She doesn't, she has a mole there, was that what he meant? I haven't slept in two days the more I think of this the more my whole body shakes. My nerves are on edge. She's always been a real good girl and hates porn, strip clubs, etc. I don't know what to believe, and I don't know how to contact that guy again. What the hell should I do now? I feel guilty but angry if it's true.. I'm just completely baffled. The thought of anybody seeing her naked let alone multiple guys makes my skin crawl.. Oh and her excuse why she lied to me about going out was because she likes to mexican dance( I don't) and didn't want to hurt my feelings when she danced with her friends bf.
Did my fiance do something awful with other men!? Or not? I'm split!!?
yes she is. and she won't change believe me. my fiance cheated on me too, I did not believe it. I thought when we wed things would change , but she cheated eight monts into our marriage. it killed me I continue to love her. but I must get over her. she was my life, now I am forced to get a life of my own. Run is the only advice I can give you..
Reply:is this a serious question? she told you one thing and did another. you cannot trust this girl, even if she is Catholic and hates porn.
Reply:sounds to me like something is going on... but she's not going to tell u. the fact that the guy knew anything was on her a** cheek says it all. u need to talk to her. if she continues to go out an do things without u an u dont trust her u should end the relationship.. good luck
Reply:Clearly something is off, especially, that she chose to lie to yu no matter what her reasons were. That's not fair and ruins trust. The guy coming up to you. That's also a big red flag. Guys don't just do that. Sounds like she is creating a huge ripple in your trust, and w/o trust or with doubt, then don't rush to the alter. Keep in mind, she created this with her 1 little lie, so don't let anyone turn it around on you. Getting defensive is always a good indication of something not being honest. Follow your gut instinct on this, they are probubly very accurate.
Reply:Dude!!!! Kick that itch to the curb!!!!! Go with ur gut feelings.. She's cheating on u dude, do the math!!! it started with the lie ( going to sleep , next some guy dropping her off, then the cover up... story's didn't jive. My mother always told me 2+2=4, always has and always will...... the math along with ur gut feelin tells u she's playin u dude..... look past the fog, its all there. Lose that liar fast before things get out of hand. Find someone worth ur love and trust. My advice is to send that lut to the left!!!!
Reply:I know it hurts and you don’t want to believe that any of this is true but come on why is she lying to you about stupid things? there’s definitely something going on ...BUT I recommend that you dig into this a little deeper and find out what’s REALLY going on BUT BE QUIET ABOUT IT ...after that u don’t have to confront her or whatever coz she'll lie to u ....you can just leave !at least you'll have closure and you'll know if u made the right choice ...if she’s a good girl like you say she is then maybe this being with 3 guys stuff isn’t true ...I find that story very hard to believe because which respectable woman would give 3 guys blowjobs ..I would believe it if she was cheating on you with one particular other guy but that 3 guys stuff it too much ...maybe this guy that talked to you is an ex of hers who found out she was engaged and wants her back and wants to get you out of the picture or wants ruin her reputation ....anything is possible ...just find out before you jump to any conclusions ...it will be worth the effort I promise you and I agree with the person above about getting married anyway and then regretting it ...but I think its ridicules for her to just lie like that all the time ..Once you get married you will never be able to trust her again and things will fall apart...but i feel like u dont trust her anyway coz you went to her house even after she told u she was going to bed....whats the point in being a relationship if u dont trust the other person...but just find out whats going on for your sake and ur mental well being ...im really sorry your have to go through this ...good luck
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