Monday, November 21, 2011

To dye, or not to dye :D?

so over the holidays, im gonna get this hair:


http://i170.photobucket.com/albums/u248/...


and i was wondering, whether i should dye it platinum like in the pic, or just get the cut?


this is me:


http://img232.imageshack.us/img232/8155/...


:/ its a really bad pic taken with a cell phone, and plus my hair usually isnt wavy at the front. i just kinda hadnt brushed it in a while xD im getting a straightener for christmass soo.


was wondering about skin tone, ect. blabla.


oh and, do yew think it would suit me? the style, i mean :D would have to get extensions and stuff, just wondering if it is worth it and it would look good [:





plus my hair is so boring right now O.o doesnt suit me, imo.

To dye, or not to dye :D?
You're hair is already blonde.


Just get the cut.





I know what your saying, but why damage your hair dying it, when your color is already similar?
Reply:Yeah you have the same skin tone as that girl and it'll look nice go for it! (dye and all)
Reply:I'd hafta see another picture, 'cos the picture is tinted pink/red, but your skin tone might be too warm to go that cold (plat blonde) your hair is a very pretty color right now, but if you did want to go lighter, it's still possible - look for a lighter shade that has "warm" or "gold" in the name, or the box says it's a warm color. BUT I MIGHT BE WAY OFF 'cos i am not sure of the actual colors since the pic is off-color-





if your skin has pink tones in it, go warm. if it is cooler, go cooler. Cool shades will be marked as "ash" on the box.





Good luck, you have pretty hair. :)

shell flower

Don't know what to do.?

I don't know what to do anymore.


My younger brother is the devil on earth.


He's 13 and screams and shouts.


He tried to drown me once.


He makes my parents cranky.


It seems like they take it out on me.


I was screamed at for answering the phone wrong.


I'm not good looking.


I have 3 friends.


I talk to my friends about this all.


It helps, until they have to stop talking.


I feel like I'm in a hole that I can't get out of.


A few days ago I dug my fingernails in my skin


until they bled.


I need a healthy alternative to this.


Anything to help with the constant


emotional pain I'm in.

Don't know what to do.?
Long live Advil.





You don't seem to be where you want to be.


But concerning your brother, ( who'd I'd trade for a dog if I were you) you shouldn't be the one to be blamed for. Your parents are suffering just as much as you are, and probably even more, that they have jobs-- so as much as it hurts, try to ignore when they blame you. Besides, your brother reached the puberty age so, it happens.





I bet that you're pretty good looking... considering that your not an abominable snowman, but not marylin monoroe either. You're not the only one... and even if you aren't the way you want to be, be happy that you're not fully grown yet.





Your friends aren't good listeners, either. You've got your life in the mud, but surely that is not your destiny. You've got a whole life ahead of you. At least you have 3 friends... there are people that are complete outsiders. I suggest you focus on your school... some way or another, by avoiding evil teachers and stupid bullies, I used to find education a "safe haven" where I could escape my troubles for a while. I am sorry, Im no help, but you'll have to find a way on your own.
Reply:In a few years you will be too busy balancing your checkbook and paying the lease on your car that you won't have time or energy to bitc_ about your high school melodramatic issues. (continued) Report It

Reply:Now if you were better looking you would probably be more popular in school and on the cheerleading squad, and your question wouldn't exist in the first place, but hey, life's not fair so start playing chess and get over your obsolete checkers. Report It

Reply:therapy. you prob don't want to hear that lol but it helped me. it's just good to have soembody else to talk to about suff. another opion.
Reply:Sorry you are goingt through this. Talk to a teacher you like and trust, or even a counselor. Keep talking with your friends, this outlet is helping you more than you know.


Do get some help with this.


Interpreting dreams?

Scary dream....a 10ft alligator was chasing me then decided to shed its skin! (I watched this from afar) Once he was done, he then resumed chasing me (based on my scent), but could not find me cause I hid. And to top it off, I was on the cell phone the entire time!





What does this mean?

Interpreting dreams?
The alligator represents the old you, or things you used to do that you now regret doing, and that you don't see as being who you are now. You are going through changes in your life, and your mind is using the alligator to represent the old you, and those changes.





The cell phone has nothing to do with it, it is just because you use a cell phone a lot and that is how your mind views you now, as a modern, independent woman.
Reply:You have a stalker and your cell phone bill is way too high.
Reply:sounds freudian (seriously). any sexual anxieties in your life?
Reply:May be you went to a pet shop within last few days.
Reply:Wow..interesting dream. Try to remember how you felt during and after the dream. Then corralate that with what is currently going on in your life. The alligator symbolized something in your life. The cell phone may symbolized that you are trying to talking to someone in your life, but are not able to. Good luck!
Reply:I don't know exactly but don't have sex without protection
Reply:Though I'm not sure..I do know that being chased in a dream means fear of not living up to expectations, fear of losing or lacking success.


While crocodiles mean unexpected danger and/or sadness.


And a mobile phone can suggest that you desire answers from others.


So to sum it up you could be afraid of not living up to expectations since some new threat occurred in your life and you are waiting for help from others instead of dealing with it you self.
Reply:This means that you're low on sleep.
Reply:It means run for your life.
Reply:the 10 ft alligator means that size matters
Reply:Wow, I was going to put alot of thought into this one until I read Dan's answer. My answer would be pale and unworthy after his. Give those 10 points to Dan!
Reply:fear of the devil [crocodile] -- subconscious guilt; conscious but repressed fear of future -- crying out for help [cell phone] inside
Reply:IT MEANS THAT YOU HAVE SOME THINGS THAT YOU HIDE FROM THE PEOPLE THAT YOU MOST CARE ABOUT. YOU ARE AFRAID THEY MIGHT NOT LIKE YOU IF YOU DO. IT ALSO MEAN THAT YOU ARE HESITATING WHETHER TO SHARE THOSE THINGS WITH SOMEONE OR NOT. YOU ARE TRYING TO HIDE FROM YOUR OWN SELF, FROM THE THINGS THAT YOU DON'T LIKE ABOUT YOURSELF. THAT'S WHAT THE ENTIRE CHASE, THE ALLIGATOR SHEDDING HIS SKIN AND THE HIDING REPRESENTS.


THE CELL PHONE IS YOUR CONSTANT NEED TO BE IN TOUCH WITH SOMEONE IMPORTANT FOR YOU, BUT YOU ARE NOT A 100% SINCERE WITH HIM/HER. ALSO THAT YOU ARE AFRAID TO BE ALONE, AFRAID THAT THAT SOMEONE MIGHT NOT LIKE YOU FOR WHO YOU REALLY ARE.
Reply:Feelings or fears of being attacked or overwhelmed, possibly from within oneself, or by a powerful mother - i.e. ones internal dependence upon mother.
Reply:To see an alligator in your dream, signifies treachery, deceit, and hidden instincts. It may be a signal for you to take a new perspective on a situation. Alternatively, the alligator represents healing powers and qualities. According to biblical interpretations, an alligator suggests that leviathan is king over the children of pride. (Spa 74:14, Job 41:1,Isa 27:1)


To dream that you are being chased, signifies that you are avoiding a situation that you do not think is conquerable. It is often a metaphor for some form of insecurity. In particular, to dream that you are chased by an animal, represents your own unexpressed and unacknowledged anger which is being projected onto that animal. Alternatively, you may be running away from a primal urge or fear. To dream that you are chasing someone, signifies that you are attempting to overcome a difficult goal or task. You may also be expressing some aggressive feelings toward others.


To see a metamorphosis take place in your dream, denotes sudden and rapid changes in your personal life. If the metamorphosis is a smooth one, then it indicates necessary changes for you to adapt to a new situation. However, if the metamorphosis is a complicated and unpleasant one, then it suggests that you are ill prepared for the changes in your life.


To dream that you are hiding, suggests that you are keeping some secret or withholding some information. You may not be facing up to a situation or not want to deal with an issue. However, you may be getting ready to reveal and confess before somebody finds out. To dream that you are somebody else is hiding, indicates a need for security and protection. In particular, to dream that you are hiding from some authority figure (police, parents, teacher...), implies feelings of guilt.


To see or hear a telephone in your dream, signifies a message from your unconscious or some sort of telepathic communication. You may be forced to confront issues which you have tried to avoid. To dream that you do not want to answer the ringing telephone, indicates lack of communication. There is a situation or relationship that you are tying to keep at a distance. To dream that you have trouble hearing over the telephone, signifies that you are the centre of some malicious gossip.


Please help me feel better from a staph infection! I don't seem to be getting better.?

I am feeling so ill that I feel sad and possibly depressed. I really want to find something to help me feel better. I was diagnosed with a staph infection and given a week's worth of antibiotics. I am on Imuran from a kidney transplant 3 years ago. I had swollen lymph nodes all over, a blinding headache, and a stiff neck. I went to the doctor, and he said that, plus boils (I just though I was having an acne breakout) was staph from being on Imuran. Since then, I have been having unbearable symptoms. I don't feel rested after sleeping or napping, skin is peeling and feels sunbruned near some of the pimpes I drained, nausea that makes me carry a bucket, headache, itching red rash in several places, etc. Now my whole back is stiff. The worst part is that I feel like I am freezing and do not have a fever and have an insatiable craving for powdered donuts. I don't know if my thermometer is broken, but it showed between 97.1 and 97.6 all day today. My doctor isn't returning my phone calls :^

Please help me feel better from a staph infection! I don't seem to be getting better.?
what a bad day...


better moments on the way...
Reply:Your doctor isn't returning phone calls? Wow, that is really bad news, time to find another doctor fast. This sounds pretty serious, call the hospital and ask if there is someone they can recommend that specializes in staph.





Take care, I am sorry, I haven't a clue what to tell you. I will pray for you.
Reply:Try colloidal silver. You should be able to get it at a healthfood store or a homeopathic drug store. You may have antibiotic resistant (MRSA) staph, and colloidal silver is better than most antibiotics.
Reply:OH my GoD!!!





Im soooo deeply soorry that you have to put up with this!!


I really do hope for the best in your recovery! although these words give no cure...I truly mean them!





plz tell your body to get better jeje


leave tons of voicemails for your doctor...jeje!





Again, plz get better!!!!
Reply:Watching funny videos on the internet and reading some good old jokes and riddles helps me feel better when I'm sick but I've never been as sick as you but maybe a good distraction like reading a book can take your mind off of things! It might be hard to concentrate but it will still be better than just sitting or sleeping all day trying to wait it out! Another possibility is to watch a good movie or something you like! Maybe call a friend! Try to get active "not like sports and stuff but like walk around a bit". Try to stretch your legs and stuff. I know it stinks having staph and I hope you feel better but the best thing to do in order to get over the symptoms that effect your mind is to just get a good distraction and stick to it! A fun thing I always find is playing chess or checkers against the computer! I hope you feel better!
Reply:If your doctor is not returning your calls, you should find another who will listen to your list of complaints. I know that transplant patients have to take anti rejection drugs for the rest of their lives so perhaps the Imuran isn't the best one for you and others are available that will give you some relief. The symptoms you describe sound like an immune deficiency to me but, I'm not a doctor. I do know that eating fruits and vegetables that are grown near where a person lives, gives them a greater immunity to irritants but this may be lame when a kidney transplant is involved. Animal products, as far as I'm concerned, will only add to your problems because of the additives they contain. Personally, I've been a vegetarian for over 25 years and I can't remember the last time I had even so much as a cold. Again, find a doctor who is more sympathetic than the one you wrote about. I hope you get better soon. I'd hug you if I could.
Reply:First of all. As a normal joe, I hope and pray for your recovery. Do what makes you happy. Humor is a great idea.





Second of all, as a Nurse, the treatment you have received sounds piss poor.





Have you definitely been diagnosed with staph?





Have you been diagnosed with MRSA


Has blood work been done?


What Meds have been prescribed.





The Imuran was most likely the contributing factor to the Staph (if indeed you have it). How long have you been taking it and have you ever had adverse reactions to it.





You mentioned something about what you thought were pimples, have they been drained, and are they what lead your doctor to the diagnosis?





Answer those questions above and I will edit this post.





Hang in there!
Reply:if u spike up a fever real quick go to the hospital


U may be starting MRSA like the other person said so go to the doctors office


Why are older sisters usually mean to their younger sisters?

My name is Bria and i'm 12 years old. I have a older sister her name is Vanessa she's 15 years old. We are always arguing. We get along sometimes. And she is always on the phone and my friends call and she tell them i will call them back and she never tells me that any of my friends call thats what i hate. Sometimes i hit her and she hit me back. I let my nails grow so that when she scratch me with her nails i can scratch her back. Like one time i scratched her first on purpose and it turn red, but i was scared LOL cuz her nails are longer then mine and i was scared she was going to scratch me back, and she did she scratched me hard because her nails kind of dug into my skin and i had big scratch marks on my arm and some of the scratches were bleeding. Hey but i learned my lesson not to scratch her cuz she will scratch the **** out of me. LOL but sometime shes nice but most of the time shes mean.

Why are older sisters usually mean to their younger sisters?
I AM OLDER THAN MY SISTER AND I WAS NEVER MEAN TO HER INSTEAD I WAS PROTECTIVE.





SOME TIMES IT HAPPENDS BETWEEN A BOY AND A GIRL THAT ARE RELATED.





TODAY I HAVE A SON AND A DAUGHTER AND THEY FAUGHT A LOT AND THEY ALSO GOT A LONG A LOT.





THEY ARE GOOD KIDS AND I LOVE THEM. ALSO HAVE TEACH THEM TO RESPECT EACH OTHER AND BE THERE FOR ONE ANOTHER.
Reply:Because we're teaching them that the real world is full of mean people - we're teaching them to be strong...
Reply:Yea, I have the same problem but my sister does not scratch me that my scratches bleed cuz that would be alittle harsh like she does to u!
Reply:lol Tom %26amp; Jerry


hey what's up with u and ur sister i think u should talk to ur father about that


i think ur sister feel jealous from u because u r more beautiful than her or ur parents give u more attention than her


so try to avoide her and dont make any fight with her


about ur friends u can talk to them at any place and dont make fight with ur sister about the pohne


or talk to ur father about that


about the big nails she has , u should stop fight with her in that kind because she will win all the time hehehehe


so just try to avoide her or be close more to her and love each other
Reply:well older sisters like to feel the power and i am a younger sister (12) and my sister fought alot to but she got more mature and she didnt really care and know she kinda looks up to me LOL but dont let her know she hurts you

alstroemeria

I'm pretty cute, but i need help?

ok, so i have rich wavy hair, beautiful skin, big brown eyes, and as in big, i mean damn hot. i am new there in our school and everybody keeps making fun of me. my grades have droped beacause of that. also everyone in our school, thanx to my action and our principle's daughter big mouth, knows who i have a crush on. now all i do is hide in the library and pretend i dont exist. this is horibble. someone give me some good advice please. i love him, we have the exact same taste in evrything. i have the cell phone that he has, the same color, i have the same elective that he has. we are both straight A students, and we have been eccepted to the same high schools. we are in the same row of lockers, we are always wearing the same color of shirt, we both have the same birthday, we are both in one street. and there is also alot of other small things that we have in common. how much more time does he need to see them all? and they are not accidents. so someone please help me! hot girls needhelp

I'm pretty cute, but i need help?
you need to realize beauty comes from within if you dont have confidence or if you dont humble yourself it will show and try to keep up your grades good looks dont get you very far in life b/c they only last so long
Reply:Since when do you have to be "accepted" to a high school?
Reply:Maybe you're not as "hot" as you think..an ugly attitude makes an ugly person.
Reply:... If YOU think yer so darn cute.... %26amp; obviously you do... you need mental help,
Reply:osirisnoria@hotmail.com
Reply:Ummm, talk to him and tell him how you feel, its not always the guys that have to make the first move
Reply:you think very highly of your self dont you,
Reply:just take a deep breath and ask him out
Reply:talk to him!!


and so what if everyone knows??





if you really are cute, then he could like you back,


if not, oh well, theres a lot of guys out there.
Reply:maybe hell never realize, it so u have to tell him and make a stand. DO SOMETHING, i fu like him... make out or something!
Reply:Ask him out!
Reply:Ummm, you sound kinda stalkerish and obsessive.


Chill out a little and maybe he'll notice you.
Reply:Get over thinking your hot and get real! Then, slowly but surely, reality, whatever it is to be, will set in.
Reply:relax, back off, you will scare him away if you keep on like this.


You need to calm down and realize maybe opposites attract.


Maybe he is too shy to talk to you.


Or maybe he doesn't want the drama of talking to you with all this stuff.


Crushes are emotional and volatile, and change so often. Perhaps you will stop liking him and he will like you.
Reply:Be honest and open with him. TAKE A RISK! talk to him. Knowing if there is any chemistry is better than suffering alone in the library hiding. Go now, give it a try... this is life. Good luck, I'm sure he's sitting there scared, feeling the same things. Go get him.
Reply:Are you for real? That's a huge load of coincidences if that is true...almost too real. That's just a wee bit creepy that you already know all of that, you're obsessed with him. Just relax and be nice. Talk to him, get to know more about him other than what you have that he has. That's just material things and I'm sure you guys could get along well, but you might just scare him away if you get too obsessed.
Reply:haha





send me a message and a pic and i will tell you if ur really hot or not.





scarred_memory713@yahoo.com
Reply:I would come right out and tell him that you like him . Or if thats to forward ignore him and see what he does does he notice,does he care? Flirt or..... Bend and Snap!
Reply:Im 13 and boy do u have a lot to learn hun!


ok first stop thinking ur soo hot, people will look at u as a stuck up snob.





after u get over that, talk to him. flirt a little


hope it helps
Reply:maybe you shouldn't be so cocky and then you'll have some friends. As for the guy you should tell him you like him or leave a note in his locker saying to but it back in the girls locker that he likes. if he puts it in your locker then he likes you. But he might also think your cocky an not like you. Cuz you think you "so totaly hot"
Reply:Well you certainly have alot of self-esteam which is good. Give it time. He will find out sooner or later. Or push it alittle like just say hey were wearing the same color shirt cool. or say hey i have the same cell phone i love it! or something like that. Make him a card for his birthday since u know it.


Good Luck!
Reply:Maybe people make fun of you because you think you're so hot. People resent that. So try not to gush so much about it. Point out what you have in common.
Reply:your grades are dropping..........and yet you say that you both are str8 As students.......


get your story str8.


you're way to young to have those fits.


you're have a hard times making friends if you don't work on your attitude.
Reply:GET OVER URSELF! mayb he sees how much ur consieded and isnt interested. u seem to kare about ur commons so GET OVR URSELF!!!!!!!! oviously ur not as "hot" as u think. ur probly not gud enuf 4 him 4rm this point ov view





send me a pikk so i can see if ur hot or not::


ccpuppyluver@hotmail.com
Reply:u sound like a beautiful person. not just in the facel aspect. if u branched out and just let things role off your shoulders. that's how i met my boyfriend. and maybe just ask him to go out sometime, nothing mayjor. say "want to go to the movie sometime?" and maybe he will say yes! but just be big and bold and let your iner u come out!
Reply:Okay first of all honey, you need a reality check. If he's not already on top of you, you obviously aren't as hot as you think you are, so what aren't you telling us?


And as for matching everything? That's kind of creepy. Like you guys are twins or something, not dating material, plus the "not accidents" part is weirding me out. Do you stalk this guy or something?


I think your principals daughter is a tad jealous of you. But here's my advice about that: DON'T hide. Keep your head up. If you act like nothings wrong, everyone will forget, but if you keep making such a big deal about it, people will remember for years to come. And don't worry what people think of you so much. Middle and high school are preps for college, and you don't want to bust your chance to go to some big amazing school for a GUY who you probably won't even know when you're eighty. Stay focused on what's important, and you'll probably find someone even hotter in a few years.
Reply:Sounds like you are looking in a mirrow. Believe me, It would not work out with the two of you anyway. If he is that much like you he probably has an ego as big as yours. For two people to go together and both be stuck on themselves, there is just no way it would ever work.Forget about how great you are and think about other peoples accomplishments and maybe you can start to make some friends. Good Luck. You will need it.
Reply:Sometimes its not about the things that you have in common, sometimes its the differences that matter. So just because you have a few SMALL details in common it doesn't mean that much.





Also, if you're young, you have time. Don't try to make him like you, just spend time with him, let him get to know you. Don't come on too strong, a lot of guys don't like that. Just don't try to just have a boyfriend, you have a lot of time to find someone that you like and plenty of time for relationships later.
Reply:Your letting peoples words get the best of you. If someone says something bad about you, just shake it off. its not what they think about you, its what you think about you. now about the boy... he probably hasn't noticed you yet. you have to get the courage to walk up to him and say hi. if you never talk to him then its not gonna work. try to become his friend and take it from there. :)
Reply:First of all being pretty is half of being gorgeous. Looks are not everything and you are finding this out the hard way.


Second, no guy wants a look a like girlfriend. He wants someone who will enhance him and he them. By your own admittance you may just as well be his twin sister. Be different. Buy your own fav color cell phone. Don't try to match what he is wearing. So what you have the same birthday. That really isn't that sexy. How can he celebrate your birthday without thinking of his own. You want to stand out with your beautiful eyes and wavy hair.


Find yourself and be the best YOU anyone else can be.
Reply:To me, you sound pretty full of yourself.


I have three questions..?

1. What time of day is best for exercise?


2. Do you know any exercises for stronger skin on my knees and hips?


3. Is it true that you can get cancer if you keep your mobile phone near your body?

I have three questions..?
good weather/curl-ups/yes
Reply:1. in the morning because that is when you have the most energy
Reply:#1 answer:Morning u have alot of energy


#2 answer:Jog and sprint everyday outside if nice inside if cold.


#3 answer: Mabey because it vibrates and gives off electricity on ur hips.( like skin cancer )
Reply:1. In the morning when you are fresh


2. any kind of leg exercises


3. Everything causes cancer these days