What do you do when your best friend is your worst enemy?

my best friend and i have known each other since like the 7th grade but we became really close last year. She is the defintion of terrible. I mean she hates to see me have other friends. We have a mutual friend and if me and the mutual friend are on the phone and my bff calls she will get mad that we are on the phone without her. She does things that she wouldnt want anyone else to do. She has a major attitude problem and does things to get the attention. I have been told that i am a shining star and where i go i demand attention but im very humble and i am really nice but if me and her go somewhere and someone gives me more attention than her she gets angy. Sometimes when me, my boyfriend and his little brother which is like my big brother goes out and we invite her she gets mad that they show me more attention but i never ask for it. There is so many other things that get under my skin about her. Should i stop being her friend or work it out

What do you do when your best friend is your worst enemy?
I know where your are coming from. I had a friend that did pretty much the same thing and alot worse ( she tried to get my kids taken away before Christmas). At first i started to be to busy to see her but I'd talk to her at night on the phone. Then I gradually " weened" her out of my life. I knew her for 7 years and even now I miss the things we did but I decided that the hassle and the betrayal was not worth it. Is her friendship real to you and make you happy? If yes talk to her about.
Reply:w4ell at first try to work it out, if that doesnt work than go ahead and talk to her/ ditch her a.ss
Reply:Omg forget gurl I mean what a kind of friend is that yes have had so many friends like that but its iight i moved on so should you trust me youll find alot of better people out there.
Reply:I'd try to talk to her. and tell her she will not have you as a freindif she does not change. If she does not, I'd drop her. She seem a bit selfish and non-caring about you.
Reply:You have a quite insecure friend there. I bet she's the type who doesn't have a lot of friends. Sometimes people who feel inferior in some ways are the more "demanding" friends. Maybe, this is because she feels that you're her only trusted friend.





Try to talk to her about her attitude. Tell her to change for the better. If she doesn't, maybe you should try leaving her. This can be very hard but I think that it will do you more good.

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