I want my ex back help?

do you think me and my ex would ever be 2gether?


me and him was 2gether for 3.5 years and it was ok not perfect and not bad. i know he loves me and i love him 4 sure.


and about a month ago he said that he dont want to be 2gether cuz he tired of things that i do liek nag him all the time and ***** about things.





he still talks to me ont he phone and i've seen him 2 days ago and when we was walking my shirt was up a lil and my skin was shown and he said pull down your shirt. when i look at him i can see in his eyes that he miss me and loves me, but y didnt he just say that he wants to seperate for a while.





and he told me that he has another gurl and i ask so much about her that he start to tell me dont worry about it why does it matta and its not important.





people i know and my friends tell me that he lies to you so you can leave him alone and not bother him.





i want to do that but i wish i knew if he will coem back. i know he loves me and cares he even told me that. after a break up.


i told him that i understand that i was wrong and that i will try my best not to nag and ***** and he said ok and i said i just want to be ur friend now.


then when i seen him i started to ask about his new gf and nag him i asked him to show my his gf. pic in his phone he said he will and now he says no he wont cuz he dont want me to be mad and nag about her. i don t really believe that he has another gf. and he said that i say 1 thing and do the other so what i say aboutme change is bull.


so it tells me that he want me to change and then we can be 2gether? what you guys think.





i will do that i will change to be with him, cuz i know we love each other and we will be happy 2gether.

I want my ex back help?
Aight gurl if ya want ya man back don't keep askin' about his gurlfriend act like it don't bother ya.Ya can still show ya care and flirt wit him talk wit him on tha phone and s*** but don't whateva ya do act like ya desperate...see he see's this ,this is why is all of a sudden actin' like he don't wanna show his pic of his gurl maybe he got one maybe he don't .The key is to make it seem like the breakup was no big deal ya can find some body else eitheir ya into me or not make up ya mind .Ya gotta tease him a little too..like if he dont like ya show off ur skin show it off ya not together no more what does he care,if hes says something bout' that ask him dat?Try to get him to admit he still wants ya without him knowing..aight guh if ya want more advice from me just holla
Reply:uhm u shouldnt change 4 him
Reply:Didnt you ask that exact same question before. Give it a rest!!!
Reply:Let him go. You broke up for a reason. Dont go make the same mistake again.
Reply:Call the moving van, pack it in, and move on!





The Rat
Reply:okay.. I'll tell you exactly what drove your man away.. You are a pest.. sorry to be so real but it seems like you pushed him away by constantly asking questions and not letting him do his thing. If you really want him back you need to go out with your friends and have fun. let him see that you can be alone and be happy. After he sees that you don't want or need him and if it's meant to be.. he will come back begging on his knees to be with you. good luck
Reply:Just ask him in the most loving way ya'll used to have and be upfront and honest. But be ready for denial and make sure you are ready to do a little change so you will both be pleased.
Reply:I don't think so it sounds like your nagging him now if you really want him back stop asking questions about her %26amp; discuss your future it's the smart thing 2 do give him some space.Good Luck
Reply:you should talk to him %26amp; tell him how you feel.


%26amp; tell him you want to get back together %26amp; that youll change


for him %26amp; not nag or ***** or anything.
Reply:It sounds like you still love him; but I am not sure if he still loves you. Perhaps he will love you again because he will see that you love him.





You also sound very nice; and I suspect that the reason you nagged him, was because he is important to you, and you want him to be your "perfect" little bf. But, guys can only take so much of the nagging, so if you want him back, you're going to have to change strategies.





If you have to tell him something, tell him with kisses or something; and don't 'keep' telling him. Yes, he will hate this. Also, he made need some space; so do not be afraid to give it to him. If he really loves you, he will always come back to you. And, you do sound live a very lovable woman. So, I am sure his love for you will be awakened if you continue to show interest in him.
Reply:No, he doesn't want you.





What you're doing is "wishful thinking" and you're actually believing what you're imagination is telling you.





Don't hurt yourself. Move on.
Reply:Please get rid of this player out of your life as soon as possible. He neither loves you nor is he your friend . He is abusing you emotionally. He knows how you feel about him.


He is just playing with your emotions.





It is sad that you are not able to recognize when someone loves you. You are not a nag. You have been honest about your feelings and is just trying to clarify your status with him.





Just try to be good to yourself and dont let anyone hurt you .ok?
Reply:you shouldn't change for any guy. you need to change for your self not for him. a relationship is a two way street, give and take. it doesn't seem like he wants to give all he wants to do is take. if you two have issues then you need to work on them together and deal with them. there are probably things you don't like about him too. but if he's not willing to met you have way why would you want him back. it doesn't sound like he's willing to met you have way at all. if he says that he got another girlfriend he might have one who knows but he's telling you that he has moved on and that you need to move on too. if it was meant to be then it was meant to be. if you truly love him then set him free and if he comes back to you then it was meant to be and if he doesn't then it wasn't meant to be. it's not easy getting over someone you love but if they move on you need to move on too. you need to get over him. start dating other guys. when he calls don't asnwer the phone or when he stops by tell him to go away it will help you get over him. if you want to be his friend that's fine to but asking him about his new girlfriend is really non of your business because you two aren't together and you aren't a guy friend he can talk to about his new girlfriend. if people are telling you that he lies to you so you can leave him alone and not bother him then don't you think they know what's right for you? they think you are blinded by love and you can't see that he doesn't want to be with you anymore. you will never know if he'll come back or not but if you are still in his life then how's he's surpose to come back? your friends are just looking out for your best inters. all you can do is give it time to get over him. I know it's hard to do that but it's the best thing for you right now. stop worrying about him and think more about your self first. good luck.