Finding emails from my husband!?

My husband left his email open. When I was using the computer I was about to close it but then I saw that he was writing one email to his ex girlfriend from Mexico. He told me before that they are not in touch anymore and they are not writing a lot. Just once in a while but that he talks about me with her all the time. In his email he told her he was very sad not to hear her voice on the phone, he miss her and her beautiful eyes. He misses to touch her skin and smell her hair and he still dreams about her. He also told her he cant stop thinking about her. I am so hurt and I told him about it and he said he didnt mean it and doesnt know why he wrote that. I can not believe him... i am so sad. What should i do?

Finding emails from my husband!?
print it out and shove it up his #*!. you might want to go through his mail box and look for other signs. caught my ex dating.....that's why he is my ex.
Reply:He is having an emotional affair and it is just plain wrong what he was saying to her. You need to go to marriage counselling. Clearly he is still has feelings for this ex girlfriend.
Reply:that's an emotional affair right there hun...i dont know if he slept with her or not, but that's proof
Reply:And of course you stay with him.....because you trust this man and you think it is fantastic he is in love with another woman?
Reply:He's just a dumbass in the first place for leaving his email open for you to read. If she is in Mexico he is just talking trying to see if he "still gots it". I think there is no truth to what he is saying he is just running game on her.
Reply:leave !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:You should of replied back. By any chance did you save her email address? Tell the hoochie off ..that should do it and as far as your husband go..stop feeling sorry for yourself .Chin up.Talk to him and mean what you say. Talk from your heart. Not fighting or arguing just "communication".


Good luck!
Reply:You said you "can not believe him." That's what you need to do: continue not believing him.





Question: What's worse than a man who cheats on his wife?


Answer: A man who cheats, and then denies it when he gets caught.





Question: How can you tell when a cheating husband is lying?


Answer: His lips are moving.





Next thing you know, he'll hook up with her. Then, if he gets caught, he'll say, "But I couldn't enjoy myself, because I was thinking about you." LOL - ROFLMAO......





Sorry to make light of this, but my first answer is the serious one. If he's not man enough to even offer up a "mea culpa," then your marriage is in serious, serious trouble.
Reply:It seems that men never feel guilt for anything they do...He will justify his actions one way or another.....Women on the other hand feel guilty about everything....I caught my husband emailing strange women and meeting w/some...I felt horrible....I know what you are going thru....I am still married after he did all of this and feel guilty because I am attracted to someone else...I of course feel guilty....I hope you can resolve this soon....because they never stop lying or cheating...
Reply:This is SO hard. He's being selfish. Ask him how he would feel if it was you telling an ex that you miss his face. If he can't empathize and can't figure out how hurtful he is being, then maybe you've lost him. He needs to open himself up to you. He needs to let you search his email, cell phone, wallet... everything and anything until you're satisfied that he is in your marriage. If he can't or won't do it, he may be gone and you might cut your losses.





My advice would be to fight for your marriage. He may be straying a bit, but talk to him and really decide for yourself if it was just an error in judgement or something worse. Sometimes it takes a reality check to realize you're taking what you've got for granted.
Reply:print it out.... then tell him that you need him to sign something...and slide it in front of his face.
Reply:I am sorry that this is happening to you. I can sympathize and empathize with this situation. I would definitely save the email. Print it out for future use, just in case. You may want to do a little more snooping around too. This person may not be the only one.





You will have to decide if you think your love is strong enough for a second chance. It won't be easy, and if you decide that you can't live with it, get as much support for yourself as you can. Get a good lawyer and divorce him.
Reply:LOL Flaca's answer gave me a wickedly funny idea (although it's probably too late to do this, but it would be fun to do).





First, open a new Yahoo! email account.





Then, from your husband's account (he left it open), write to her, and tell her that his email has been compromised, so that all future correspondence should be sent to the new address.





Then, be her penpal. But don't tell the hoochie off, just lead her on. Send her an email that says:





"My doctor just diagnosed me with syphilis, and asked that I contact all partners from the past 10 years, and urge them to get tested. Sorry, honey, I hope you didn't get it...."








Sorry to joke about what is obviously painful idea, but Flaca inspired me.... I'm sure this hurts, but, at least hypothetically, you could have some fun with it, too.
Reply:geez I just had a round with a guy whom I thought was my bf today too!!


And, it's NOT even a full moon!!





Hell, my bf broke up with me, cause he couldn't handle being caught Again after lieing so many times!!!!!!!!!!!





so your lucky in a way I think..................he didn't dump you!





Really, though, what else do you really think he should say after being caught red handed?





You caught him in a moment where there is nothing better to say and didn't give him time enough to fill your head with other dumb excuses.





I'm sorry your sad. I am too. I'm on a HATE all men roll.
Reply:You need to decide whether you want to stay with him or not. Personally I couldn't. And trust me..I know it hurts. I am so sorry for you.
Reply:Strike up a conversation with an old boyfriend, or better yet a complete stranger, and see how he likes that. I'll bet he stops communicating with his Mexican princess then.