How do I approach the issues without accusing him?

Info: We live together and we have been together for almost a year:





1. he keeps his phone on him at all times and has it on silent (he used to leave it out in the open)


2. Lately he doesn't want to have sex he only has sex with me when he is drunk (once every 2 weeks when we used to do it every day)


3. He has been going to his ex's to visit his daughter that he hasn't seen for 2 years and I cant go with because he has to reconnect with his daughter. (every other sunday - no overnights and she is single)


4. He seems unhappy and doesn't want to talk to me much anymore.


5. Only kisses me when he is going or coming back from somewhere.


6. never says one thing bad about his ex in-fact i think he is comparing her to me. yesterday he told me she has huge **** and dark skin... I have never met her or his daughter.


7. he used to talk on the phone with his ex about their daughter in front of me no he just does it when we are not around and they have been texting.

How do I approach the issues without accusing him?
dump his ***.
Reply:Numbers 1+2+3+4+5+6+7 = Unnecessary, Unneeded, Undesired, %26amp; Unwarranted Stress. You need to figure out the equation as to why you tolerate that rule.
Reply:i hate to say it but its pretty rude of him to compare her to you. he shouldnt even be talking about other women like that to you. i wouldnt even deal with him anymore you dont need that. if he compares her to you again just ask him why he does that and that it hurts your feelings. move on you deserve better.