Do you think he loves me and we will ever get back 2gether?

iam in a situation that i dont know what to do!


i ve been with my b.f for 3 1/2 years and we love each other soo much and i know it for sure. like about 1 month ago he told me that he wanted a break i said ok and was upset he said it wont be 4eva. then after 2 weeks he said he dont want to be with me and i ask him do you have another gf he said no. then i asked him about few more times and he said he likes some one but dnt know whats going on.. about 2 weeks later he i asked him again about his new gf. he said he has feelings 4 her and i asked is there any chance we will et back together and he said idk maybe.





me and his mom are really close he loves me / like me a lot we talk i visit her and he knows all his family knows me and likes me. also his mom an dhim are really close and he tells her everything, but he dont tell her anithing about another girl when she askes. he tell me that he alwasy will be there for me and he still loves me and cares have feeling also, but he is tired tha ti nag him 2much and i alwasy want things my way. he works and dont really have time for me so few days ago i asked him ...





if you dont have time for me cuz u alwasy work how u have time for her and he said i dont and she dont say nthig about it. my friends who know me and him and even who dont know sasy taht they fell that he lies abut about another girl . sometiomes i have a feeling that its a lie also. he changes his answers to the same question about her when i ask almost all the time. few days ago i seen his mom and we talked she said to me that she loves me and she told him that also and that she knoes that he loves me and he told her he needs time to breath. and she gave me good advice tha i agree and so did my friends.


1. be his friend


2. dont nag him if he said no then dont aks 1000 times again about something


3. no maa what dont talk about his gf. if he does or if he dosent


just act like she not there.





i told him that i feel that when he has time to see me he just dont want to and he said yes, because when i do see him i alwasy say soemthing negative. and waht hurt me the most he said that " what you feel for me , i feel for the new girll"





i dont really belive it cuz what i feel for him took me 3 years to feel and he knows her few months.








p.s and if he didn love me and care and really had another g.f why whould he be answering my phone calls and calling me tim eto time, calling me back??





if anyone have an advice plzz let me know !!!








then i talk to him on a phone for an hour and i told him how i know that i need to change things about me and i will and i will be his friend and he said no prob.


i wont nag his and ***** about things.














and yest. i seen him and we talk with him. i made shure i look cute and i've seen him looking. i show him my graduation pictures and he looked at it with so much care and love.


then we went to eat and i wsa like look u like my nails and he said yeah its nice and i was like and my toes to and he said i've seen it all ready!!! what it mean for me that he ws looking.


then when we walk to the train station he seen that many guys look at me and my shirt was keep goin up and you can see some skin and he said to me pull down ur shirt. i think he didnt like that other guys looked at me liek that but y he says that he dont want to be with me if he loves me.


and b4 i left he said that he seen me wearing all pink and i was with some guy. (true few days ago i was wearing all pink and i went with my cousin to the beach to talk a walk at night ) he dont know how my cousin looks.


so i was liek what u spy on me he didnt answer then i asked again he said no. in a way like yeah kinda.





when i told this to his mom she said they guy wants to know hat u doing and he didnt see me for about 3 weeks.


then not long ago i asked him about his g/f and how i dont believe it and he got man and said what u want to see her pic on my phone and i said no thakn you.


so i wantes to check and i ask him out of no where i wnt to see her pic and he said why so u can ***** and get mad and he said why does it matter.i was like no i just want to seee her how she look and all. he said no .


y would u ask why does it matter if you know i love you and want to be with you and dont wat u 2gether with her





...well then i though about something....idk if you guys will agree..,.





i put my self in his shoes. and asked my self ...


if i lie to him about my new bf. say i i have it and he will be asking me about him all the time how he looks and where we met and i love him and all that stuff that i ask him.


i would get mad and annoyd cuz iam 4get what i said b4 and i would't want to hear my le over and over again rightt????

















whne i talk 2 him he talks to me like be4 when i was his gf. he explains what he did yest. (he got a new tatoo) and how it looks and he said many people like it and i was liek who he said his friend who went with him and his roomate and people on the streets thats all. so i was lie cool.





and then i said that now i want to see him more then b4 cuz of his new tatooo and he said u'l see it.


then he said he was ironing his clouth so i was like what u ned to look hot?





and he laugh and said that he wont say sometihng that he wanted to say but i was like just say it and he said cuz u never know who you will see...





so if he did have another gf. then he would not say soemthing like this.











i want to let him go but soemething telling me not to. and its telling me just to give time timeee and space.














so plzz guys sorry its to long thannk you for who ever read it and give me some advice.


plzz dont write back to me and say leave him... cuz i know that i can do that.


if anyne have their opinion and diffrent point if view what to do and how to get him back and how to show him that i've change.


and if you think he really loves mee and cares. and about his new gf.

Do you think he loves me and we will ever get back 2gether?
I'd say just let him go for now. Loosen ur grip and let him go. As he said he needs some breathing room. It'll be hard but u must do it, if you want to have any chance of him returning to you. Please have some self-respect. He mentioned another girl and he has told you he has feelings for her. Let him go! Can a relationship be possible if he thinking about another girl? He seems confused and pressured. It looks like he really needs his space and freedom to do what he wants and make his choices. Goodluck, and dont worry, if he meant for u, he will come back. Again, if u need any chance with him, the only way to go is to let him go. And dont expect anything once u let him go. Dont ask for anything. Dont try to convince him of anything. Dont try to question him or criticize him. If he calls, just a simple hello, how are you. That's it.
Reply:This is ridiculous. Just look at the length of your question and how you run on and on and on about piddly little things that mean nothing and have no bearing on the situation. You say you won't nag, but this whole thing is a giant, panic-stricken nag. Give it a rest!





It's no wonder he wants room to breathe. If I were him I'd run for the hills and never look back. You have so much maturing to do it will take you the next 7 years.





You need to stay completely away from him. That means no phone calls, no messages, no emails, no excuses to 'drop by' his place or his mother's place, no driving by in your car - can you do that? I doubt it. You need to learn to stand on your own two feet and support yourself. You need about two years by yourself where you are not dating anyone, nor in any kind of a relationship, where you can learn to be happy with YOU and not depend on someone else. You need to be by yourself and become a mature, adult person. Here you are apologizing for living, telling him that you have to change (which makes you look like a doormat because if he liked you he wouldn't WANT you to change!), and then making all kinds of silly piecrust promises (a piecrust promise is a promise easily made and easily broken). You're rambling on and on about things (who cares about what your nails and toenails look like - you have bigger problems!), and saying you've changed - but your whole speech shows that you HAVEN'T changed. And then you mention you thought about lying to him! That doesn't show much maturity or good character. If anything you're worse than ever. You are so totally and completely insecure. And what is this parading around with your shirt riding up all about? Do you think that is attractive or sexy? Yuck. I don't blame him a bit for wanting another girlfriend; just reading all this makes me tired, and he had to deal with it! He's just a guy who feels badly about having to break up, but boy do you need to be away from him. Big time.





You're so wrapped up in yourself. You try to look "cute" and are focused on YOUR graduation pictures, YOUR nails, YOUR toenails (eww, at dinner yet), YOUR shirt, guys looking at YOU, YOUR possible boyfriend to make him jealous, you, you, you, you, you. Are you aware of what he goes through each day? Are you at all aware that there are other, bigger problems in the world going on?





The best thing he could do would be to be blunt, not string you along by trying to let you down gently. He needs to simply walk away and break off all contact. Sorry, but I can't see him with you, at least not for some years time, if ever.





And please try to make the effort to use proper English including spelling words out and using punctuation. It's very difficult to read these incoherent, run-on sentences and make any sense of them.