How to get under her skin the most?

What is the best way to get under a girl's skin the most...





A little history. I dated this girl and was really into her... she was really into me.. then out of the blue she turns cold. I know she started to talk to another guy right about the time she turned cold.





Anyway we are no longer together but she is still calling and holding on... yet at the same time she wants to date other guys.





I was strung along for over a month before I finally broke up with her...





Anyway... what I am wondering is... what will get to her more... her seeing me out having fun with other girls... or simply makeing sure that she has no clue what is going on in my life. No emails, no logging into myspace... no phone calls, etc.





I know this question probably sounds childish and the correct answer is just don't worry about her and move on with your life... but I've always done that in the past... and want to try something a little different this time.





Blackvenom-2001

How to get under her skin the most?
ok. So, you know you should kick her to the curb and find a girl that is worth your attention. That said. Are you trying to hold and keep her? Make her a very nice dinner. have her over. Tell her that you are in love with her and only want an exclusive relationship. If she can not do that, then she needs to completely let you go and not call you anymore. Then, after that if she tells you that she is not ready to commit to a relationship with you, I would do all of the above that you mentioned. Cut ties with her. PERIOD. No emails, no logging into myspace... no phone calls, etc.


Then, get on with it. Get a new job if you have to. Find a new hobby or take new classes. Volunteer at the art gallery close to your apartment or start a dog walking business. Do something different that puts you in the line of new friends, new people new situations. You will find a girl that you will hae a good relationship with instead of having head games with. Head games are not good for you or for the other person. Then, after a year if you meet up with her and you both have your heads in different places you can see if you might be able to date again or be happy knowing that you both are in better places becuase you were not together. Just do not waste your energy with the games. Concentrate on real things and bettering yourself.
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Reply:not knowing what ur up to will make it easier for her to get over you completely. if she sees you from time to time out with others it will be tougher.
Reply:Just be yourself! You shouldn't be snide about things...even if it's in the interest of curiosity.





What goes around, comes around.
Reply:Say Good Bye and mean it.





Cupid's darts hurt more coming out than they do going in.
Reply:If you know the correct answer to your question why dwell on being vindictive? The energy you put out will come back to you eventually. Karma is real. Just move on with your life. She does not seem worth the effort. You should wish her the best and make peace with it.
Reply:Me personally , since I am a girl. what irritates me the most about exes is them flaunting them in my face or not keeping in contact. that stuff ticks me off. I get so irritated I have to go home from where ever I am at. Hope my advice helps.
Reply:different is good and i think you are doing the right thing...now my advice to you is go and date some of her friends, show them an excellent time and buy them things that you have never given her before(they dont have to be expensive). make sure that she knows, but dont call and tell her. take pic with them and put it on myspace. have one of her friends do your voice mail for you so when she calls she can hear their voice. have another female answer the phone. now i would tell you more but the other females on here might try to kill me...lol...what i just told you are not some of the things that you can do to get under a girls skin but it's some of the worst sh*t that you could do.


PS: good luck...if you really want to hurt her,,,try sleeping with them and other girls that she associate with.